Ok thank you.
I mean like over text
message him 'can you keep a secret i know someone who likes you ' He will answer 'yes who'Then send photo of yourself pointing at a mirrror and say her
Ohhh smart thanks
It's cause I've told him I've liked him before and I haved liked him too many times and I feel like he's gonna find it weird now
Aakse, why do you even like him? Do you even have rational and logical reasons yo be liking him? Because it's just sounds like to me all it is is just hormones. I don't even think you even take this guy seriously.
I've known him for a long time and he has liked me before and we have kissed before and hugged many times and all that stuff
That's hormomes and lust. You still haven't told me why you like him or the rational and logical reasons why.
I like him for his looks and personality and the way he treats me
That's why you get treated poorly. You like him for all the wrong reasons and the things that don't matter for a relationship. person who wants to be with you for a serious relationship is not going to do all those things. If anything he just wants to fool with you, your emotions, and to get into your pants. That's all.
You two have nothing serious. He just wants to get into your pants. And because he's seeing that he's not getting into it quickly enough, he wants to play with your emotions.
I mean ur right but I've always liked him so much
You know why? It's because you don't even love yourself so you seeking validation from somebody who doesn't even care about you. A real man that's interested doesn't treat you like that at all. He doesn't play with your emotions. He doesn't make you lust after him and he doesn't lust after you. He doesn't treat you like an option even if he has options. You just going based on emotions and you're hormones. That have nothing to do with liking a person and it has nothing to do with love either.
He just likes the attention you're giving him. I'm sorry to say. All he wants is you attention because it feeds his ego. And he's using you for that even more because if other girls see that you see him as important, they're going to make him important too. Especially if he's attracted to them, he's going to take every Advantage he can while you still pining for his affections that he's never going to give you. Don't waste your time with this guy. Cut him off.
He doesn't treat me bad though he's really nice to me and respectful
Does a respectful guy have you to be kissing you and doing all that stuff to you but meanwhile you like him for a long enough time and yet he doesn't even respect your feelings? It's expected to be nice. It's another to be kind.
Yeah true I just like him too much I don't know how I would cut him off
Is simply a choice. You cut them off the same way how you cut off people. He's no different. The only problem is that you got yourself physically, and emotionally attached to this person to the point that you created ties with him and now that you created those ties is going to be hard to break without you getting hurt in the process. But if you don't cut him loose now you're just going to suffer more. You block and delete his number, you moving from all forms of contact that include social media. And if you end up seeing him in person again you let him know that it's over. And you don't have to explain anything else beyond that.
He's a very good friend though so I wouldn't wanna delete his number and I see him at school too
You want a friend who treats you poorly?
He doesn't treat me bad he's probably just horny
And do you not hear yourself in the excuses you're making for him? So if he was too sexually abused you right now are you going to say oh he's just horny? No young lady he just wants to use you. He's not only not interested in you and not because you're not somebody that he would want to just have sex with, he doesn't respect you as a person either. He knows you have feelings for him and that's why he likes the attention. He's only being nice to you because he knows that he can get benefits from you anyway. You got to understand something especially about with guys like that. If he doesn't treat you with respect as a friend, how in the world you going to want him for a lover? There are better men out there. Not that one should be having sex before marriage anyway and doing all that craziness. But a real man won't treat you that way. They really do love you. And they love you without any of that crap. People I know that are now in good relationships can tell you the exact same thing. People that I know personally who been through what you've been through can say the same thing. It's not worth it. If you hold on to him, you will have a hard time getting a good man wanted to be invested in you. Make room for somebody that's worth it. But you can't have them as a friend. Because if you keep them there, and you end up with someone eat that does care about you he just going to sabotage your happiness.
This guy is a player.
Ur right but honestly I don't know how to let him go because me and him just bexame friends again because we didn't talk to eachother for. inths after kissing because I told people we kissed after he told me not to tell people
Yeah that is a major red flag. Big time.
Whenever somebody is doing something like that it means two things. Are the he's embarrassed to be around somebody like you, or he's already dating somebody and you don't want to let the other person know that he's cheating with you. I already told you how to let him go. And at this point if you have to ghost his butt do it. I normally don't condone it, but this is one of the few exemptions that I condone.
He was dating someone at the time we kissed
Sweetheart I hope you understand that you are in the wrong. I hope you realize that. You are lusting and yearning after a person who was dating somebody. And now you help him cheat. And most importantly you now want a cheater. There is the same about what that other then Karma. I'm just not just once a cheater always a cheater. But that if you get with a cheater they want to cheat on you with somebody else. Drop this fool like a bad habit. Bad enough you're going to have to repent for this. Because that's why you're going through what you're going through.
I have to go to school with him and I have to see him after school for like 5 hours so I'm stuck with seeing him
Just because you go to school with him, just because you have to see him at the school for 5 hours, that doesn't mean you have to have them in your space. You just going to have to treat him like you don't exist. Because at the end of the day I'm pretty sure he's been treating you like this long before you even knew what was done. Once you understand and realize how he's not as important as you make him out to be, it just going to see him like every other person you go to school with. He doesn't have to be in your life if you don't allow him. But he's only there because you keep them there. Ask God for forgiveness of what you did, silently ask who you help him cheat on forgiveness, forgive yourself for this, and move on.
Go about your days as more. Or it's about as normal as you can make it. But definitely stay away from him.
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Ok thank you so much I will try to cut him off
Don't try. Do. Because only you can be responsible for you. Try and won't get it done if you don't already want to do it. So simply just do it. And you're very welcome.
Oh that's smart thank you
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Thank you I will have more conversations with him more about his life
Way tell her to play the game instead of just having the balls to tell him. You man card is taken away. You're on the wrong side.
Oh ok thanks but the thing is I have liked him more then once and he knows that and he's liked me once too but I've liked him more then once
😅 he already has my number and we text sometimes
I agree, lived with 9 boys and they were oblivious things that girls saw so clearly.
But what's a good hint
Try to have a deep conversation with him then touch his upper arm. There should websites of giving hints to your crush.
tell him you want to have his babies LOL That is a good hint !
Send a pic (not a nude) and ask if you lookngood in that outfit. Or ask him if he wants to hang out when corona ends
Ohh smart thanks
I've liked him too much and he knows that and what if he thinks it's weird I like him AGAIN
thats how dating works. gotta take the risk to find out. its always a gamble
True but do you think he will find it weird that I like him again?
dont just ssy u like him. u want to date, say it
Damnnn but that's hard I don't know how I would say it
trust me, i know it sucks, am an extreme introvert and shy. can't ask on person but can via electronic mediums like text or internet
Yeah but should I tell my friends to tell him or something?
not through friends if u can keep from it. tell him yourself. just blurt it out and hope
I mean we go to school next month so maybe I'll tell him at school or something
ok. that can up the anxiety for you, but its your decision
I'll probably tell him over text when we are in school
i vote go ahead and text it now. save the build up and get it over with
Ok thank you
I've liked him too much though and what if he finds it weird that I like him again
If he knows and isn't reciprocating, then what are you even doing?
I wanna get with him
SMH... but he doesn't feel the same
I don't know if he does he might cause he texted me first the other day
Try saying you are interested in being more than friends and would you like to go -insert activity here-. This shows confidence and interest which is very appealing to many of us. We like knowing you are into us as much as you like knowing we are into you and confidence is attractive. Good luck in whatever you decide.
Thanks I will try that
Would waving & smiling at him works?
@Lindalizz then best just raise your hand and smile, no exaggerated waving.
I mean like when I pass by him in school
Lmao how did u fit it 🤣
well it wouldn't at first cause of the case, so i had to put just the cd
Lmao i bet it was scratched up
i thought of that, so i put it in a plastic bag ; )
Oooo smart and romantic
thanks lol but i don't think it did any good
Did she ever respond
no but i didn't say who i was either
Awww secret admirer
yea secretly and anonymous
I still think it was romantic of you
oh thank you, i don't know if she would remember
I've liked him more then once though and he knows that so what if it's weird
If he doesn't like you back, he doesn't like you back. MOVE ON