It also means you aren’t of any importance in that persons life
Why she doesn’t care about me?
Because you didn't create the right tension in your first impression and first conversation with her. There are going to be many people in mens life that dont care about you as much as you want them to. It does suck, but you have to push past it and stop worrying so much about what other people think, and focus on yourself.
I’m learning to do that now. I’m just confused by her actions. Why text me if essentially you have no interest in anything?
She texts you because she likes the attention you give her. Not to be sexist, but many women are petty in leeching off the attention of guys they aren't at all interested in so they can feel better about themselves.
At the time when we was talking she would Occasionally check on me, I don’t if it was genuine but maybe she was bored
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That is all she wants?
She is just a friend by the way
Same either way
How is she my friend if essentially she is using me for attention?
Exactly. She's not.
She probably isn’t comfortable having a irl friendship. She still initiates text so she can’t have it both ways
So we aren’t friends?
Not if you never meet
She probably isn’t comfortable meeting up in person so she text. She is the one initiating so she can’t have it both ways
How many weeks now have you been only texting
We been friends for 3 years
Three years of texting and never meeting?
We met before we just don’t hang out because she doesn’t want to
You’re basically 100% text buddies
I don’t want this. I don’t want to date her but I don’t want to be anyone’s text buddy
Does she ever talk to you about other guys she likes or is having problems with?
She used to but it stopped
I think you’re just a life coach and the hand writing on the wall. Its been three years no romance no getting together in person it’s time for you to Move on my friend and find a girl that lives next to you that you meet in person
We live in the same city. I didn’t mind being there for her because of course I like her but I don’t want to date her. There are too many things I seen that turned me off. I just take it as a slight that she would initiate text but isn’t interested in meeting up.
Then just keep doing what you’re doing but find a new girl to date in person
Me doing what I’m doing doesn’t benefit me in anyway. I could see if she was introducing me to other woman
Just being her life coach by texting
Again how does that benefit me?
You act like you want to stay with her but if it doesn’t benefit you then you’ll have to say adios Amiga and MoveOn
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