What was your worst date experience?

[Anonymous]

Oh my lord i have the worst date story ever.

Before i met my boyfriend, my friend signed me up to tinder. I'd never been on a date in my life and i was 21 years old.

I came across this guy and he came off, really sweet and cool. He did tell me before we met he was only 5ft6 but as im only 5ft i wasn't too bothered.

I rang him up a couple days before the date which i really regret now. I was so nervous and i just wanted to make sure he was who he said he was. I just assumed he was nervous and he came off a total dick on the phone and wouldn't stop swearing.

He text me to tell me he was gonna be late... He was 3 hours late for the date.
I still gave this guy a chance. When i turned up he was smoking and looked nothing like his pictures but i still stayed as i have trouble confronting people.

He didn't bring his ID so i had to get all the drinks with cash as he didn't have a card. He didn't know what to drink and pretended to like gin so i bought him one as i felt bad as he was really nervous. He never drank it.

I found out everything he said was a lie. He wasn't getting a law degree and was going online classes and working odd jobs. He wouldn't stop swearing the whole time and making inappropriate jokes it was so bad, people were leaving the bar out of disgust. Even the bar staff kept trying to check on me because they could tell i was in a awkward situation.

He also told me he used to work im childcare and followed that up by saying the fact i look like a child made me more attractive. After that i realised i needed to get out of this situation.

There was no way of getting out without him noticing so i pretended to be drunk and said pretended my sister needed to meet me. He tried to get me to stay but eventually i got out. As i was leaving he asked if he could borrow my phone to call his mum to pick him up... He was 24. Then he called me out for not being able to drive when he couldn't either and said he didn't like the fact i was wearing heels. Also all through the date he wouldn't stop telling me how attractive i was to the point it was creepy.

After that i ghosted him completely. I blocked his number and blocked him from my tinder. I was so scared as this guy came off so mentally unstable, i saw no other choice. A months later i kept getting cold calls and eventually i got a tone of texts from his friends phone saying some unpleasant things. I text his friend back explaining my side of the story and that im now in a happy relationship. He actually seemed very sympathetic towards me and apologised for the texts and then asked if i fancied cheating on my boyfriend with him.

Luckily my second date went a lot better and i found the love of life and soul mate who had also been cat fished on his first date too.

[19magic]

Can't say I've been on a date date, but a guy told me he wanted to meet me in spoons for a drink (during the Europe Cup) to celebrate England winning. I arrived and a bunch of his friends were there, really awkward. I also wanted to join in with them all so asked him to get me a budwiser when I only so so like it. So anyway they're all chatting having fun and I just didn't know what to say to fit in or chat about, I mean did the England chat to begin with.

Anyhow 3 drunk guys came up facepaint and everything, so the only girl in 9 of us. They started shouting and smashing glass, then told the waitress it's her job to clean the glass and she has a nice ass and actually touched it. The manager came out and told all of us to leave, the waitress said me and two others can stay. Then we went indoors, and my guy needed the loo but handed me his keys and wallet 🙄🤷🏻‍♀️? And this other guy told asked me why was I with the other guy and spent the whole time telling me I was pretty and how he always gets the young ones, and all this other bull. It's been 10/20 mins now and I kept wondering if my guy had ditched me. He finally came round and I asked if he wanted a drink since he brought me one and got myself a couple of double vodka and cokes, and left him with the guy who after a further 25 mins finally left. But the thing I learned is that I didn't have to hide what kinda drink I liked, (although I knew he had less money than me at the time so picked the cheapest drink I liked)

[Hermes-Paris]

Once had a date with a woman and we met at he restaurant overlooking the sea. She had been drinking all day with her friends. WE only got through appetizers when I said something and she threw the plate on the table and started yelling What? What did you say? Then she stood up and lifted her dress up to her chest and started yelling in Spanish. " Hey. I want everyone to look at me. Look what this guy is not going to get tonight. Everybody have a look." Luckily the bouncer escorted her out pretty quickly. I still have no idea what I said but my Spanish was not so good in those days.

[Anonymous]

I found her with someone else :/

[jennifer_bloom]

I once went on a date with a guy I like and his best friend who was way more attractive and smarter than me called him to tell him she had just broken up with her boyfriend 5 minutes ago and I felt jealous cause I wondered if she liked him - I later found out she didn't but the thought she might ruined the date for me.

[Desconhecida]

He kept talking about his ex all the time. There was a moment I stop listening and let him talking to himself.

[ryoru]

I only started dating at 26/27 years old.
Bestie broke up with her longtime boyfriend, doing best friend duties- we binged on comfort food, listen to her talk, and eventually signed up on dating app.

The begining of my chain of dating disasters.
The guys were either or a combination of the following:- too keen to meet up less than a week of chatting/ keen to talk on phone but no conversation/ tries too hard with jokes/ LATE / smells of stale cigarettes / don't look like their pictures at all (probably photos taken by their ex) / boring conversation (all they can talk about was work or their ex)/ kept talking about marriage ( like hello, it's only the first date) / dirty jokes / swearing/ complacent with their dead-end job that they don't even like / MLM / no cause or hobby that they strongly care about

The moment bestie gotten a boyfriend, now fiance... I deleted those apps and stopped dating for a while... Then FB dating came along, well that's another story on how I got together with my boyfriend 😂

[babybae96]

Oh there was a couple.


1. I remember one date, it was long ago. We met at the bus station. When I saw him I was like wait that’s him? 🤮 He wore a very loose 10x times too big jacket, like he stole it from his grandpa. We went for a drink. I ordered hot chocolate. This guy was stuttering, he was staring at me, it was so creepy. He seemed so clueless like he never seen a woman before. Then we went to a shop nearby he had a chocolate all over his mouth and even around... He acted so dumb in a shop asking me similar like what is a lipstick? I then excused myself saying I gotta go home. He walked me to a train station. I quickly jumped in so he wouldn’t try to hug or kiss me. Then I felt bad so I said it was cool.. I really didn’t want to lower his confidence. As soon as he was gone, I jumped out of train and met up with another guy who just happened to be nearby.


2. A guy came to pick me up with a car, he was a catfish. He looked so much worse than on photo. He was all about flexing and proving himself to me so he drove so fast with a car and he turned to me “so do you like me” OMGGG 😩😩😩. Then we went for a drink and HE TOOK A PICTURE OF ME (I hid face) then he sent it to someone, it was probably flex. He also seemed like I was the first one he took out. Ew


3. A guy wanted to meet me so bad, he said he had something for me like a gift. I thought ok I won’t let him down, he’s not even from this city so I met him.. HE HAD NOTHING. He was so out of clue, a weird freak. I was like wtf what a waste of time.


4. There was also many other guys I met that looked different in person..

[SaraSmithishere]

Probably going on a date with a closeted gay man.
When I was in college, I studied fashion design, and there were a lot of gay men in my classes. One day, I was walking to my car, and this guy looked me up and down in a way like he was checking out my outfit. He started talking to me and complemented what i was wearing, introduced himself, and asked if I'd like to go out. I assumed he wanted a fashionable straight friend, so I said, sure!
We would up meeting for dinner and really hit it off. We talked about movies, politics, music, etc. He liked George Michael, Elton John, etc. His favorite movie was about drag queens.
Anyway, we went out again, this time to a movie, and I noticed he started getting very... touchy? It's like he wanted to touch my hand, then my arm. All of a sudden, he leaned in for a kiss! I was really taken aback and pulled away.
After the movie, he sort of huffed and puffed and then said "I'm sorry, this relationship can't work out between us".

[Anonymous]

we had met at a local bar and I asked her to dinner and a movie in a few days. The bar was loud so we hadn't talked much, mainly danced. I arrived to pick her up-she said hello, got her things and said to me as we were walking out the door "I'm not going to have sex with you." What the hell do you reply to that? I think I said I'm just interested in the movie. Her conversation at dinner was completely off - basically a dialogue with herself on random thoughts. After dinner she said she didn't feel well and wanted to go home. Delighted (but not so rude as to show it) I assured her that was fine. As I drove her home she asked to be dropped off at the bar where we had met.

[Anonymous]

I met her online. We talked for a while and seemed to really hit it off. Decided to meet. I arrived first at the restaurant we were meeting at and when she came in the parking lot and saw me, I literally seen the disappointment sweep across her face lol. Why I have no idea? It wasn't like she hadn't seen pictures of me or anything so? I could tell immediately she was "done" right then and there. I even asked her if she just wanted to leave, but she said no and wanted to have the date anyway. It was the longest, most awkward and uncomfortable date I've ever had. Nothing improved at all during the date. I knew she didn't want to be there, but I guess she didn't want to hurt my feelings or something? (she already had though lol). As expected, there was no second date and shortly after, never heard from her again.

[Fuentes]

Some chick told me her dad was calling at 12AM we was at Denny's and i knew it wasn't her dad it was some dude she was seeing she bitched about once before lol. She told. me to Shhh like who u shushing hoe im a real mothafucka but i was just like damn thats a expensive meal i don't think i gotta enough u tryna split? And she goes ill just PAY i said coo order something expensive and then she was like im sorry and shit, and went on to explain and talk my head off about their issues and im like fake listening and i got head and never hit her back up months, later she hits me up apologizing say i should give her another chance and she wish she woulda chose me first and how i hit her up at the wrong time and i said im not with it and she got mad and cussed me out and i blocked her bitch ass

[here2helpuALL]

Im not saying it's a bad thing but she was heavy set and upon closer investigation after the date I realized she had been only posting older photos from high school. She also had a very fake personality. I even told her she doesn't have to act like that if that isn't her. Dont conform to what you think a social interaction should go like.

We caught up a few years later and she is married and thanked me because apparently her very next date she took my advice and acted like herself and now she's marrying him.

So not really a horrible date but the worst one if I had to list one. It was more of an eye opener to how some people search for happiness by confirming to social pressure

[godfatherfan]

I matched with someone on POF or maybe Tinder. Nice pictures and all. I picked her up at a friends house she was staying at. She came out of the house and all I could think was Linebacker for my Detroit Lions. Jesus, I couldn't believe it. I tried to talk to her but I couldn't even look her in the eyes. I kept looking for an adam's apple. Seriously. I call it my He-She date. ugggg. The whole date lasted 90 minutes and 30 of that was driving. She checked out half way through and I just dropped her off and left quickly. Yikes that was horrible. Ever try having a conversation on a date and you can't even look at them? lol...

[ztrok]

I'm not that picky with looks but I met a girl on an app who looked beautiful in her pictures so I already expected her to look worse irl. Just in general I notice women's pictures are often very fake and they use makeup, angles, and filters.

So I've come to expect that if she's a 8/10 in her pics expect a 6/10 irl.

But this one girl... I can't even understand how she did it, she must be great with photoshop because she looked completely unrecognizable from her pictures. Even after looking at her during the date I saw no similarities I'm convinced she used a picture of a different girl.

Very annoying and very dishonest. I've come to accept a bit of tweaking since all girls do it but this was just ridiculous.

[Am_and_Pm]

Dude, if she was texting someone than that's a red flag that she's meeting someone else there. U should ghost her for a day or so and hit her up. Do something where u can talk and walk. I mean. It did sounded like u won't interested in her. Else, u would have tried a but harder. Tho, u might be looking for something simple for the rn. This girl sounds fun and seems like trouble. If u can keep up u should keep it nice and fun. If u can't get friendzoned or get out.

[Alexandrubaschet08]

Here in London.
A cute japanes lady invited me do have a coffe togeder
Later i finde out that she didn't talk very good English
I talk for like 2 hours whit google translate on our phone.
English whasn't our mother language
Translate from japan > Englis > Romanian (the strange words)
Afther she told me she whas married and have olso a kid.
WTF?

[Anonymous]

This was last year, but I went on this date with a guy who I met online and he said let's go skating! So I thought cool idea for a date! So I dress up in some warm clothes (I hate being cold), throw on thermal underwear, turtleneck under a hoodie, my parka, hat, scarf, gloves and ski pants. All toasty.

But when I get to where we are meeting, he walks me to a *roller skating rink*!!! You can imagine how red my cheeks were the whole date lol... I tried unzipping as much as I could but it was definitely a disaster lol

[Vmm90]

Being out on a date only for one hour in he messages a friend to go out drinking and bails on me the second they respond.

Granted because I got upset about it he made plans for us to have breakfast and go to a museum the next day. Which actually turned out to be my favourite date we had.

[MrScorpioT]

I take a girl out for her birthday to her favorite restaurant after going to the mall and buying her favorite perfumes and some new clothes I thought she'd like. Then later on that night take her to a hookah bar which she loves to do, only to get an ear full of i didn't want none of this, and how come I didn't come sooner, take these clothes and this cake back (which was her favorite red velvet) and no sex...

[TacosRAwesome]

First date - this guy spoke to me in the same way some people speak to five year olds and then called me a retard when I rejected him.
Not a first date - my ex annoyed me so much then I got a panic attack.

[nopedydoo]

thankfully i have not had a bad one.
went on my first date a couple days ago and it went really well 😊

[CrossfitKristen]

A guy wanted to fuck on the first date, I declined and he never called me back. Not all that bad just dissapointing

[Futron]

The first time I met this guy he asked for unprepared, unprotected anal sex in the park and when I rejected him he cried. He smelled very bad because he'd been living in his car for 3 days. NO BUENO.