The first girl is my dream girl. She's absolutely gorgeous, smart. I have always been friends with her and have been extremely attracted to her, but don't see her being any more than a friend in the near future.
The second girl is very fun to be around. She's pretty, but not extraordinarily so, at least to me. She likes me a lot, and honestly I like her too. However, I would not call her my dream girl.
- Girl 1Vote A
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Most Helpful Guy
Never wait for a girl. It NEVER works. Look up "ladder theory" on the web and learn about it. It's amusing and very true. The first anon girl is completely wrong, which is amusing considering she probably knows better. Far from throwing out ANY chance, dating someone else and making them happy makes you MORE attractive to a girl. Do you think most women say "no WAY I'd be with Brad Pitt--he's dated Angelina Jolie!" Aaaaahhhhh NO!
It sounds like you don't have a shot with 1 right now because you KNOW she's tossed you in the friendzone. You're options are to date other people or to take a shot her. You can always take a shot with her and then move on to the next girl, but you'll get absolutely nowhere if you wait. That's a trap that FAR too many good guys your age have fallen into. Learn EARLY to avoid it and you'll be WAY ahead of the game.0