This girl and I have been dating for a couple months, she has a pretty good job, she's independent, gives me space, sex is amazing, she's totally my type personality wise but she's not... That cute. I want a girl who is gorgeous cause (not to toot my own horn) im a pretty good lookin guy. And a good looking guy deserves a pretty hot chick. This girl... she's not attractive. she's about 5'6 which is kinda tall, she's curvy like hour glass shape, her face is eh. She could do better. she's got this birthmark under her eye which is YIKES and when she doesn't wear makeup (like in the photo) she's a 3 at best. I don't know if i should keep dating her, I've got other girls who are so much hotter but their personality is so dull. I dont know if i should just suck it up and keep seeing her or just drop her asap. Dis the girl ⬆
Should I keep talking to this girl? Or just drop her?
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Seems like a troll question to me, and if the girl in the picture isn't actually you fishing for compliments, I think it's extremely low of you to post her picture on here (I'm sure without her permission) and call her ugly, even if it's actually a random girl you don't know.
If by any chance this is serious, you sound like a stuck up narcissist, bragging about yourself and what you "deserve" (by the way, being "good looking" never made anyone entitled to anything, especially if they have a shit personality) and calling someone else, especially your "girlfriend", ugly, and even "fugly" in your response to another opinion here. Sounds like whoever you are and whatever your motive is for posting this, you enjoy being hurtful and are probably deeply unhappy.
If this person in the picture is actually you and you're fishing for compliments and seeking outside validation for your appearance, you really need to work on your self esteem. How YOU feel about yourself should be paramount over how randos online feel about you, or anyone else for that matter. There will always be someone out there who doesn't like you or finds you unattractive, as you can't please everyone and not everyone is attracted to the same type of person. You need to feel good about yourself and not let others' opinions define how you feel. I know this is easier said than done, but as you focus more on bettering your own life and less on everyone else (which, by the way, if they're more focused on you than their own lives, indicates a personal problem within them and that they're unhappy people, so take anything they say with a grain of salt), you will begin to feel confident in yourself and not care about outside opinions.
I think this question is awful. If she fits all your boxes and the physical aspect, aka, SEX is satisfied, what further purpose will her looks serve in fulfilling you? Oh, that’s right; it’s not about YOU. You just want to show your girlfriend off to people. As if she’s a damn object. Do her a favour and don’t pursue it. This question is highly disrespectful, and I wish she could see this and dump your sorry ass.
she doesn't even look that ugly, average sure, but being the better looking one in the relationship, you have the upper hand and she thinks she scored and will do a lot for you. Not to mention you said everything else is amazing.
You gotta ask yourself, you tryna grow old with someone or fuck around? How much stability mean to you? What does someone always having your back mean to you? And I'm sure there's more
Is she really that ugly to you? She not drop dead gorgeous, but she's not ugly either. Besides, it all comes down to what you value more in dating, personality, or looks? As far as dating goes I would say personality would matter more. If you just want someone just because they look hot then that just sounds like someone you'd want to fuck rather than date.
Honestly, if you like her personality, try to accept her appearance? No one is 10/10 it’s hard to find someone that clicks with you nowadays. Maybe you should try with her and see how it goes, if it fails then, at the very least there isn’t anything to regret because you’ve tried.
Of course men are allowed to be as shallow and shitty as they want to be, but as soon as women date someone with a high earning job, she's a gold digger and thinks she's better than what she really is
This is a troll question. A guy that acts like that is just bragging and the proof is that he is too coward to put a real portrait picture of him for girls to judge...
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