Do you believe people can control who they find physically appealing?

Question

In my lifetime I have seen people who I personally thought were good looking and ugly looking.

Too be honest these thoughts I had felt very involuntary.

Answer 1

btbc92

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Yes absolutely. And I am one of those people. Anybody that usually say oh up they can't, nine out of 10 times they just don't want to. It's not anyone's job to try to change their mind, but it's our job to love ourselves. And if other people don't want to love you because you don't look attractive to them, that's their personal business. But at the end of the day I don't believe in lusting and hurting other people. I don't want that done to me. Attraction is very much something that we can't control. But it's never okay to force attraction on other people or on yourself. But they had said it is scientifically proven fact that attraction is very much a choice. And I can actually validate that fact for myself.

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At the same time we can't pay attention to some of our thoughts, because some thoughts are not of our own. It's from other spirits and we tend to think it's our own and it's not. So one has to be careful what they're listening to. And what voice they choose to hear.
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Attraction is very much something we can control*

Answer 2

btbc92

At the same time we can't pay attention to some of our thoughts, because some thoughts are not of our own. It's from other spirits and we tend to think it's our own and it's not. So one has to be careful what they're listening to. And what voice they choose to hear.

Answer 3

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Attraction is very much something we can control*

Answer 4

SueShe | 2.2K opinions shared on Dating topic.

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Yes of course. It is called self control.

If you are in control of your hormones and don't let them rule your life, then it is perfectly possible to control whom you find attractive and be selective about it.

All it takes is a little training with yoga exercises and meditation. It works miracles for me and I have never felt the need to be attracted to anyone if I did not want to. It's a simple control of the mind over the body.

The problem is that it does not work the other way round and that you are still subjected to other's failures to control themselves.

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Answer 5

hughessavannah200

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No, some people have a type. Like me I’m into blonde haired guys, you could be the most beautiful or handsome guy on the planet and somebody out there would still think u are ugly which that’s their opinion.

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