I want him in my life but he keeps asking to hang out
It seems like you don’t if you don’t want to hang out.. unless it’s sus and you don’t trust that he won’t do anything and if that’s the case I hope you stay safe just be aware of everything and listen to your gut if it’s tellin you somethings wrong
Are you saying I don’t want to be friends because I don’t want to hang out?
That’s what I’m taking from it I mean for me a friend is someone you like to be around not only just text yk?
It’s up to you tho if I was in your shoes I would get rid of him it’s too much when guys get attached Ik bc I am a guy and I’ve been like that before
There are some friends that you just don’t hang out with. He is not attached as he answers my text and he invited me to hang out
Okay so if your not comfortable hanging out with him then don’t it’s all your choice I’m just giving suggestions I hope you stay safe :)
I think we could hang out in a public place and if anything happens I can alert the authorities and cut him off. I don’t think he would do that. In fact he onlyInvites me out in groups. One time he invited me out 1 on 1
He is my friend
I guaran fucking tee you, he's not your "friend"
Why you think that?
Because it's not. I guarantee you. Ask him, see what he says
He said we are friends
Yeah, probably to not scare you awayI guarantee you, you're not his friend
Am I not his friend or he is not my friend?
Am I not his friend? If anything he is being dishonest
You both are
I will tell him, can we still hang out?
I can't answer that, only he can, but good luck.
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We could still hang out without getting his hopes up?
Just be blunt and don’t lead him on. Depends on his pride I guess.
I did and he is like you don’t trust me at all yet you want to be friends, it makes no sense
Depends on his response. Either way sounds like a good night
But I’m not interested in him at all romantically
I did but he keeps asking me to hang out
Hmmm maybe he just likes your company.
Don’t you think if a guy is always asking a guy to hang out he likes her and he said he likes me
yeah your probably right.
But it is a 1 on 1 situation
Isn’t I mean
I don't think that's mean. But if you went out with him and got the inevitable sexual advancement and you shut it down maybe he won't act that way anymore. I don't have girls I hang out with 1 on 1 that aren't girl friends so I think you're right. Its odd.
You don’t have female friends?
I'm friends with a girl I work with but I don't invite her to hangout at my place or anything beyond like going to lunch
He doesn’t either. All he does is invite me to get Lunch or tag along in group
I’m guessing friends with benefits as he wants to hang out and I don’t.
Oh... I see..
What should I do?
If he's respectful n you want sex n there's no real feelings involved then go for it
I don’t want sex. Plus he said he liked me In the past a long time ago
Do you like him
Move on them
Can you believe we had a argument because of this?
About how he feels I’m just using him for attention since all I do is text him but make no plans to hang out or see him.
Well. yiu should tell him he's your friend but you don't want sex with him n you don't have feelings for him.
Sex isn’t his argument. Friends hang out right? He has rarely invited me out in a 1 on 1 situation. His hold thing is you can’t throw me to side when you feel like it but reel me back in when you want attention
I said sex cuz you said he want to be friend with benefut... you should hangout once in a while then. That's why we do have friends
That was an assumption, I really don’t know what he wants. There is really no downside to hanging out with him?
So.. why do t you hangout with him.. he's right to complain if yiu don't hangout with him
Because he said he liked me. That is the only reason
You can turn that down n hangout..
How so? Once a friend likes you the friendship is over right?
No... that's not true he should understand that you don't like him romantically n you can continue friendship. mwby people are even friends with their ex
Well the friendship over after that argument. He in the past emphasized how I know you aren’t interested so it was okay. He took sending 1 am text that I’m thinking about as I’m interested or I’m playing games
He seems quite pushy
I wouldn’t say he is pushy , he just don’t like being taken advantage of as he says
Will you hit me up
You want me to hit you up?
Yes.. will you?
Sure I will inbox you.
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