I invited this guy on our first date tonight to go to the movies and I told him it is on me but I just meant the movies. I can't do the food. So is it OK for me to be like once we get that, "Will you get the food?" or is there another way of saying this? I mean I don't want him to assume I meant paying for the food too. I like for us to balance it out esp since guys normally pay first. What you think?
Can I say this to him?
What Guys Said 1
i think the movies is a horrible first date.0
What Girls Said 1
Normally, when someone takes someone else to a movie, they pay for the goodies too. I think it would be slightly rude (or awkward at least ) to wait to get to the movie to bring it up. Since you didn't say up front that you didn't thave enough for all of it, you could text/call him and just say something like, "I am looking forward to going to the movie and I was thinking about how expensive the food is at the theaters. I don't know if I can afford to pay for us to eat. I thought I should let you know." Then just see what he says.0
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