Idk why they always take me out on a date, or 2 dates, followed up with either a fone call or a text message saying they had a great time and we should hang out again soon, but then after that they just seem to disappear? I never did anything too much, after they text me I just reply briefly saying I also enjoyed myself the other night and I am def up for meeting up again. Those guys are all from a dating site. And they all said they were attracted to me. So what's the deal? Why this keeps happening to me?
Why guys always disappear on me?
What Guys Said 5
hard to give you an exact answer because don't know your personality...but if there's chemistry no reason y you can't kiss him...he may think you are not that interested even if you say you are...body language says a lot. just keep going at it...dating is a numbers game...and people just keep getting to be pickier and some guys just want sex even if they say they want dating.0
To answer this question I first need some additional info:
1) Do you have sex on the first or 2nd date?
2) Do the guys know how you look (on the dating site)
3) Are you the same person in real life than you're in the virtual one?
4) How quick do you meet with a guy?0
guess there dnt agree with your roles on first date0
they might be doing it do build up there confidence or they just showing interest to try and be polite and avoid making an awkward situation0
What Girls Said 3
it's not you, it's them. they clearly have a problem being around you, intimidated maybe? or they wanted to see if they could get sex afterward. you know how guys are, some expect girls to invite them to their place afterward. I've gone out with 3 guys, 2 of them stopped communication a few days after I texted/called them, and the other one is a no show. also, maybe they were being nice by saying they had a good time in order to not look like the bad guy. they might have not felt a connection, sometimes that happens. I got a little disappointed when that happened, but not that much because girl, that is one less douche to worry about!0
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If a man is interested in you as a person, they will go to you. This is regardless of whether they just want sex or they want to get married. If they stop contact with you, they simply lost interest. Men are pretty easy to read in that sense.0
Men aren't wired to stick around or be monogamous.0
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