wow man that was beautiful 🌹
Thank you 🙏
You're welcome 🌹
I feel you 😕
Thanks for the MHO.
You're most welcome 🌹
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This was so beautiful to read and I'm so happy for you. Happy to the extent I wish that for myself too. God bless 😊
God bless to you as well! I'm certain you'll find someone who meets the same level of intelligence and deep connection as you too :)
No one is going to be exactly like you, though. But I understand what you're saying.
But to your question, I would enjoy dating with people were we shared and appreciated each others intelligence while complementing it. I think to me it is very admirable for a person to take a person where there are and have a rich conversation with them. Like an uneducated farmer and really have a fun conversation with them. To have an intelligent conversation one does not need to match intelligence but simply meet them where they are. Imagine if you were the person that lacked intelligence compared to the person you were taking to. I think you would still want a conversation with them and would want to learn rather than being given up on. And it's about treating others the way you want to be treated. And I think it's fair that the other person be respectful and appreciate the other, no matter who has the intelligence. To match the intelligence is great! Then you learn together but I think it's good to be prepared in case one is either smarter or not as smart as you. And to deep connections, i think those happen when you have meaningful moments and values, beliefs and likes, loves that are important to you both
But why would you leave the better man for a fuck boy? I didn't get the point you're making. The question was to those who value intelligence and deep connections.
He wasn’t the better man. He treated me like shit but in all my life he was the only person that I’d ever felt saw me and spoke my language and I felt that was worth the mistreatment. Then someone else not only saw me, but treated me like I was... I don't know, important. And tbh I have no regrets. I never knew I could be treated so well. I just wish he was a relationship kind of guy.
And in both cases they’re highly intelligent men, which is why I fell for them in the first place
I am so sorry dear. I'm glad now you know how you should be treated. But you know that there is better than the new guy. Someone who would really love you and not use you for sex only. Raise your bar and remember that for a good man to show up you need to be single and available for him.I think you mistake egomaniacs and narcissists with intellectually men. Yes they are intelligent but they're manipulative characters and toxic people. And you can never truly establish deep connections with them. I hope you find a man who is worthy of you. Build some confidence, self love, and respect. You deserve better ❤️
A question all of us don't know the answer to unfortunately. I know it is not easy I understand 🌹
I also heard that ego and stubbornness becomes a big issue. is that right?
Yes that's 100% rightI think it's best to find intelligent people who have a good moral compass, but that's really hard to find
haha I like your approach 😜😂
This approach is worth a try, really:) Especially if your experience is not rewarding. Though in my case I simply don't care, leaving a hypothetical option for existence of a partner.
Sorry to hear 🌹.. I guess someone broke your heart badly huh
I suppose you could say that. It wasn't her fault, really; bad luck teamed up with bad genetics.
This sounds awful. Stay strong and I hope you are doing well now
really sorry to hear 🌹
So wonderful to hear
I know right!
Sorry about that
Ah, older women arrange it to invalidate the younger ones. Such are today's older women
I don't understand what are you refering to but okay 🌹
You're a 🍯💞
haha thanks 😊
oh I'm sorry