I think he pursued me friends first then he developed feelings
I do want to be friends but he wants to hang out
Honestly... I'd say no. Every single time Iv'e tried to be friends/ stay friends with someone who's liked me it just doesn't work out. It's like being friends with a hungry bear but the bear agrees to not eat you, the bear is still always gonna look at you and drool thinking about eating you because it's a hungry bear.
So it doesn’t even make sense to stay in contact
eeeh I mean not really unless it's just strictly friendly over the phone only conversations. You can entertain the idea a bit, see how things go. I definitely wouldn't go chill irl with him though.
That is why I kept it to text. He thinks this isn’t fair to him. It’s weird because we met in real life
Yeah I mean he clearly doesn't want to be only friends or even try to be just friends so better just stop talking to him.
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You’ll give him false hope
I think I did because we have been talking for years
What should I do?
Be honest with him
I think it’s too late
Why u think it’s too late?
We fell out
I maybe gave him false hope or lead him on and he didn’t like it. I was texting him and I didn’t have interest in anything
Yeah I’ve had that happen. Guys get pissed.
He didn’t call me names or insult me he was just upset. He is so emotional
He really likes u
Why you say that?
That’s why he’s so emotional
I think it shows he cares as well
He said don’t talk to me until I apologized. I understand he was hurt and cares but that was wrong
What does he want you to apologize for?
In his words taking advantage of him, giving him false hope and leading him on
I don’t think you did that just by texting him. But guys do sometimes think that.
One time I texted him that I was thinking about him after midnight but he didn’t mention anything bad happening in his life.
That would do it
I think this upset him the most. It was a huge mistake on my behalf
Unfortunately, it was
Is he justified a little?
I wish I could show you the text thread. Although he may be right he acted like I owe him something. Also the text were him basically complaining about how he was there for me but I treat him like trash
You don’t owe him anything!But you probably should’ve been more clear that you didn’t like him like him
If anything I owe him any honesty and that is probably what he wanted.
We’ve been friends for 3 years and I wonder how things would be different if we both communicated clearly to each other
You’d be better friendsImma go bed now. Night girl.
Thank you. I wish I can talk to you in the future
You can. Just follow me.