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I'm curious what you make of people where attraction *never* develops. I've also been with a woman who most men would rate as unattractive. And she was very sweet and kind. And yet I *never* became even remotely attracted to her and it soon became a situation where her seeking sex felt like I was playing dodgeball. I was also introduced to someone in the hopes of setting me up with her who I never was physically attracted to. I remained her friend until her life ended two years ago. She too was kind. She was brilliant. She and I had A LOT in common. We spent hours talking to one another. And yet I was never attracted to her. Ever. In these cases, I *did* get to know them. They were wonderful people. And I was not ever, nor could I ever be, attracted to them. What do you make of that?
Attraction is sex and that is largely innate. I think a certain part of attraction is genetically determined and there just isn't anything that can be done to make it happen if it's not programmed in us.
Are you Asian
Would you prefer 5'7 white guy or 6'0 Asian
@wingspan83 I will choose the Asian
No offense, and is not for me, but short doesn't equal ugly
What's your criteria of too much hairy / wolf type hairy?
@aieeazumui like skin covered with full hair (chest, back, behind the neck, ears.
How much on the leg and thighs?
do people with autism have bad facial symmetry, I always wondered that
Not sure, but my cuz's kid is autistic and he's a pretty good-looking dude. Sure better looking than one of his brothers that isn't autistic lol
Referring to arranged marraige etc...
Then yes, they are a deal breaker if he isn’t physically attractive
No. No means no. Physical attraction is more than just a face not to mention I leaned my answer more towards the chemistry that we have no control over. Read my answer carefully and slowly before you try to change it. A great and humorous personality with some smarts always makes a guy more attractive...
Why do you assume I didn’t read your original answer carefully? A deal breaker means if he is 700 pounds with missing teeth and no arms then you may choose not to date him. His body isn’t something even a personality and brain could get over. If in fact you could date him then I apologize.
2nd picture is so accurate.
Be careful because things like ‘fat acceptance’ were invented by women with the thinking that male opinions don’t matter but that you need to accept/allow whatever she wants & line up with her opinions.I learned it the hard way - and I thought like you once - but life works out better for you if you are the leader 1000% of the time. This means not caring what they want. If they happen to fit what you want, great. Otherwise keep it moving.