Why what are your plans in life?
Ok so how many people have you had sex with though?
Genuinely curious - why is asking if you want kids or not a turn off?
@Smoke-n-Growls well, if it's a first date that is weird but in general I don't want kids
Gotcha. Likewise, I don't want kids, but I do like to bring it up sooner rather than later. I find it to be preferable to get it out of the way quickly - that way I can move on if it seems the other party wants a family.
@Smoke-n-Growls if you date someone when do you usually tell them your opinion on kids?
I don't usually go for a date until after some conversation happens. So by the time we get to a first date the question wouldn't be out of the blue.I actually met my current partner through a childfree community, so that wasn't a conversation we even needed to have but we had it before our first meeting.
@Smoke-n-Growls oh awesome I would like to date but covid ruined that and online dating is still hard for average guys.
I hear ya. I'm kinda glad my partner and I met before Covid. I don't think I'd be dating right now, either, if I were single.
@Smoke-n-Growls ya, you're lucky. I had met someone from a dating app but she said that things aren't going to work. Oh, well. I do want a girlfriend so I can talk to them, have sex, cuddle wake up to someone, and to not feel lonely or depressed in this pandemic
I hear that. Stick to your guns, stay true to yourself, and use this time to focus on you. On the other side of this pandemic, when things get back to a measure of normal, it'll be easier for you to find someone.I'm long distance with my partner, so I understand missing cuddles and sex. He's in the the US but in the process of migrating to me in Canada.
@Smoke-n-Growls oh, okay yeah honestly you're right but I do feel lonely sometimes. Which sucks, it affects me more than ever. I am working out and I finally got a new haircut.
Nice! Congrats on the haircut. It looked like a small terrier had appeared on the floor at my hairstylist's when I got my first post-lockdown cut.I used to feel lonely about being single, too. Honestly probably the best thing I did for myself between my ex and my current partner was getting comfortable and happy being on my own. That sort of independent spirit really helped me grow.
@Smoke-n-Growls ahh, okay I always wanted a girlfriend but never gotten the opportunity. But yeah, maybe that's why I been feeling like this sometimes.
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