i know a lot of single folks their 30s especially single guys. from what it looks like , most of them do not date anymore. And If they do date, it takes much more work and effort and luck than when they were in their 20s. They no longer have the same social circles as they once did and many of them just go to work then go home. Maybe grab a drink at a bar all by themselves once every three weeks. They no longer party or hangout with friends as they once did. Should we do all of our dating in our 20s?