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All your reasons are based on negative attributes of the said person which I find quite a simple minded way to look at the matter without ever considering the other side of the interaction
@Hmmm_how_about_that A serial ghost here
@Hmmm_how_about_that There is a reason to it: I am not willing to give a person any benefit of doubt if they have not even been able to tell me goodbye.But I would indeed be curious what the "other side" might be. Any reasons to ghost that would not be related to negative attributes? If you are able to enlighten me on that I might even change my opinion.
@connythebaker Actually I think you can understand based on what you just said, it's just that sometimes I get too disappointed to try to explain any word of reason and I see any try would be a complete waste of time and resources so silence is my choice. I think that an example would be a better way to explain my point, a while ago some girl reached to me for some advice about her relationship and I said I would be glad to help, after she explained and I wrote back my take on the matter she straight went to disrespecting me and I saw that how ungrateful she is, sure I could have tried to say what I felt but I didn't wanted to spend my time teaching common sense and manners to someone that just disrespected me, she wasn't worth of anymore of my time and energy so I did cut my losses instead.
@Hmmm_how_about_that I can perfectly understand you there, but I would not consider your silence "ghosting". For me the term "ghosting" applies only to situations where no controversies have occured. If there has been serious tension - Well, as you said: Some people will never understand anything, no point in wasting your energy talking to them - you have to walk...But I now get what you meant by "seeing the other side" - If you just shrug and turn away, some people will probably term your behaviour "ghosting" when in fact it is them who are the sociopaths. I did not think about that one tbh. Good point!
@connythebaker I appreciate your logical way of thinking
I guess the person that ghosted you thought the same lol
What I'm trying to say is that those people were probably never fully interested in the first place.
But if you already knew from the beginning that you didn't want anything serious why waste your time? Men just want sex that is all.
I think it takes time to know someone so, it's not wasting time, it's giving time to know someone better.After that everyone has a type or standards or wishes how the the other person should be. And if you don't want to disappoint someone, cause they are not what you were looking for you ghost because they don't want to hurt or they don't think it's fruitful.Guys only care about sex, well that's not always true.
From what I had to deal with a lot of men were only interested in sex because they used to do stuff to make me think what i did wrong. I get tired of putting up with men and hearing the excuses that people come up with to why they behave badly. If you dont know what you want stay single because they really dont want to get to know you if they dont have the respect to tell you the brutal truth.
Ummmm. I didn't wanted to make this assumption, so excuse me if I got it wrong.I think you are seeing guys or talking to them on social media and I am not using it as an excuse for guys or men to behave bad, but I think it will be different if you will leave social media and find someone in real world.
I'm good I stop dating people on the internet. I just focus on myself if I star single for the rest of my life I be ok.