I always date grown up guys, I just don’t date 45 yr olds
Leave them for me, well I'll find s guy 45 a little too immature as I'm 45 next year, and if love boadend my horizon, them guys with more experience give me live , and I got so much more in common with s cultural guy, rather than a boy. But to drop my jokes I'll be happy to go out with s guy my own age too, but now again I have this old guy who I love eventhoug I might be thought of as an idiot. Still I can't PM you as I'd think you and me might find things we agree on. Don't you really think I would be so happy if I could make my hubby 15 years younger and still keep he's life wisdom and everything else who define the guy I fell in love with. Hell I would , and in the same action I might love to be younger myself too. Give me a pm
You wouldn’t be happy with a man who is 15 years older who can’t walk or run.
My guy even out run me , eventhoug he never wasted time in a gym, and we do everything together. Do you need a loving husband or a stupid training partner, what on earth do you have a boyfriend for if I must ask, or have you ever been in love... I doubt it
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You and your husband will grow apart as you get older. One day you will feel more like a nanny rather than a wife. Just wait until your husband enters is late 50s. You will start seeing yourself less happy
He's 57 now and I'm 44 and I don't feel him drifting away from me , most judge him as 40 , guess I make him younger, we have of all our pers far the best sex life, him ready every time I need , and him always in the mood, ofcauce as I wrote you, if loved him in a younger version if it were an option, but as I figure even you know , we can't control who we fall in love with.. Unless we build up boundaries who judge people on superficial things as looks , height and age. Now I'm not telling you I ever went out to search for a guy to be way older than me. But as I might told you many times I weren't in a position to be judging others, as I met far too many guys who rejected me because of my height. And it might take a guy more mature to accept a woman my height, or I would have to settle with s tall guy, and in this case I'd rather live with a guy much older, that have to risk a life with s tall guy with all the inconvenience living with a really tall guy will bring me , not even thinking how horrible it would be for my kids if there dad were tall too. But to put it straight again , me living with s guy 13-14 years older isn't a Settle at all. But ofcauce in the best of all world I'd love him younger, and hell I'd love to be younger myself too. And yes I know one day death will test us apart that's the sad part of living. But rather 30-35 years with joy and fun, than 50 years is miserable fight and cry. I want my girls to have a super memory of there father.
Don’t lie. 57 yr old men usually cannot have good sex. I’ll bet you are always the one chasing the children and picking up toys because he’s too old to have the energy to. When you’re 60, you will be stuck with a 74 yr old man who can’t walk or go anywhere with you. You will be feeding him, changing diapers while other 60-65 yr old couples are happy going on retirement vacation , still having sex, travel the world before they die. And he will die earlier than you too. On average , women live longer than men. You might very well spend your remaining 25-30 years as a widow. Marrying too much older is not a good choice
I'm glad he's oldest as ever dating s younger guy will be horrible in every case , but as I told you ( though you obviously don't read my post) I'd be happy to have him exactly as he is... but younger , as for instance 12-1 3 year so we would be the same age, would be nice, but some of the things in our relationship would relat on him being the experience guy and his age bring me the security , not physically but mentally , it's hard to explain, as also we are fully aware we are freaks in a way, as he's mental stronger than me as he got the life experiences that help us a lot, and he have the strong personality who come from being older and more experience than me, and all this levels up for my physical appearance that for sure is much stronger and bigger than hi , so things levels up in away. But I understand what you are telling me, and some of our concerns is him being sick and leaving me to play a nurse the rest of my life, now he'd told me or even dictate me to leave him to himself and go out and find another, the day he will become sick. Now I'm not sure if I can. But for now I must correct you our sex life is wonderful, and s fit 57 year old have just as God sex life as younger, and here is the experience essential. He know just how to make me cum and a perfect balance between hard sex and passion. But I do agree with you life don't keep on , so in that case your right, just would I not miss a life with my hubby
And please don't call my decisions stupid, as we love each other... and yes I curse the day we met , when he told me his age , as I'd really thought him my age, because vi didn't want to tell him I felt he were too old for me, but hell happened and I ended up loving him and then things accelerated
Hun I like older guys too. I don’t like younger guys. But at the same time , I don’t like old guys. I like young men who are 2-8 years older , not 14-25 years older. When a man is too old, there will be problems When a man is too young , there will be problems
The problem is when you’re in love , you refuse to acknowledge reality. Marriages with large age gaps tend to result in much higher rates of divorce.
One of the biggest reasons why I don’t like old men is they are ugly saggy and unattractive. I would not have sex with an old grandpa
I'd wish I could bring photo in here as his very attractive, and attractiveness also comes from inside , you might forget. He's the one who can fuck me for hours, and I end up giving him foot sex as my pussy end up getting saw when he drive me for hours. And yes we usually have sex twice a day, and he too fuck my best girlfriend whol I watch too. He's only thing is I'm over a head taller than him, and would ofcauce have loved him to be 2 meter tall as me , but as with age it's not necessary to me
I think that you are lying to yourself. You’re just lying because he is your husband. You know he is not attractive and he can’t fuck. Elderly men need to take sexual medication in order to fuck well.
Ohh as I really really want so much to PM you about this personal matters , as I really like you comment and really understand your reply, and everyone who love can forgive and forget, my hubby has many faults as everyone have, I'm not to judge them , and wouldn't disagree with you, a younger guy could have few advantages , and must admit he isn't as dynamic as for 13 years ago when we first met, but as I too had lost some youthfulness , I still find us in sync. I'm so happy to get you nice concerns, but I don't really believe you would suggest me to leave the love of my life for real. For some research predictions, based on general assumptions. Hope you don't judge me as a lunatic for loving a guy older or way shorter too. We have faced a lot of miss judgment due to our height difference in my favour, but not for our age difference, as it's hard to regonise. I don't want him to suffer more , and just want a good life with him. Would you find me a better woman and wiser, if I Chuck him out my life, and went out and date a talk younger guy... I'd probably never will feel attractive and wouldn't be turned on by, just to give an impression of being normal and follow shallow society norms, but for ayre never could let me forget my present hubby. Please please follow me so we could text each other more private, as this is becoming pretty private. I do like you comments but would love on you instead of this way, but it's up to you ofcauce
Aging accelerates more between 45 and 58 then 31 and 44. My mother and father is 60, they never want to leave the house because they don’t have the energy. If you are 44, you may still want to go outside to have fun
Well hubby would love to go out eating , walk around town in night time, go to theater and go on a trip in the natur, im the one who like to slow a little down. He take care of the girls in the morning , go with them to sport, he even teach then volleyball, though I'm the expert and he isn't build for volleyball. He take them diving and into the mountains climbing, I'm scared of heights. I really would feel like a coward if tried to pretend he were the slidest doll and Borring and want to stay at home. Guess there's a reason all my even younger teammates and girlfriend's want me to bring him to all our parties and even when we practice. And they live to come to our home. Our girls just adore there father and he's by far the most active father in there school , driving every time some need help, the guy the teacher call, eventhoug he is not that good at German language. But you could be right that he suddenly become the kind of old guy you try to warn me about, but then I owe him a dam lot. For the time he'd been acting like an much younger great guy. PM me !!!
Your 57 yr old husband goes diving? Stop lying. I’ll bet he will be tired after going to the restaurant with you, he will be begging to go home to sleep.
There must be something wrong about your decision making skills. 1. You are raising kids that are not yours 2. You married a man who is shorter than you. I guess you don’t need to feel protected by your man. 3. You married not an older man but an old man who isn’t likely able to keep up with you right now 4. You are ok with spending the remaining 25-30 years of your life as a widowI don’t even know if you are a normal person. Because all the choices you make don’t make any sense. I simply don’t understand it
There are more normal people on this earth than you ever will guess, you see there are a life outside Tinder, and must tell you every ainsulting accusations you come down against my Superman, a completely erroneous. My husband is a doll, is a mountaineer, has just started training for the ironman, although he has never spent time training in the gym or strength trainer. He's just a pretty ordinary factory worker that I've given up my real estate job to spend the rest of my life with as I'm pretty sure he Sammy down me will be the best parents for our beautiful girls who adore him. I am very sorry you do not even want to discuss this through personal messages, which I write respect and I enjoy discussing with you, and am really happy for your reply, of the fact that we do not completely agree on this topic, certainly does nothing . and I certainly recognize that I would be happy if my beloved boyfriend was younger but with the abilities he possesses as a 57 year old. Well I allow myself to wonder a little about the compulsive notion you have of people who are older, your world obviously does not contain many nuances, I wish I could expand your view of the world we live in, it consists of anything but stereotypes and I think we should all be happy about that
Again why wouldn't you on me , I can see you have many great comments in here , and we don't at all need to agree, people get stronger sometimes when they accept to disagree
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