I try very hard to keep my work at work and switch off when I get home. My only concern is I am seeing more and more untreated bipolar episodes from him... he refuses a therapist and honestly I’m pretty concerned. We just got our gun permits I got mine just to have I’m not buying anything anyways I plan to talk to him because he’s said some things That make me question if he has the capacity to own one. I know I will have to tread lightly Especially with his childhood trauma. But I’ll be damned if 20 years from now he’s in prison for shooting someone because he was upset with them.