I feel like it’s a curse and I’ve been called shallow but it seems that I can only date people I am attracted to. Even if they are a shitty person. I don’t know why this is. I feel like there’s something wrong with me because I know that it’s the heart that matters and the integrity of the person that I care about but what compels people to be able to date someone they are not attracted to physically and what makes it impossible for me to do so? Does anyone else think about this?