out of curiosity, how tall are you?
@Chrispy23 so fucking tall hard to believe, 294 cm or 6'8 , and I'm out of a very tall family bon bouth my parents side , mother is still 194 cm and little sister 199 cm ( she just pass out the grown up club ha ha ) so you se tall girls are normal in our family
woah thats crazy, I'm like 5'8 here 😅 feels bad. I wish I were taller I couldn't imagine how it's like but it must be awesome to be that tall
it's a lovely story but you missed the point. the point was if it's possible for a man to fall for a girl that doesn't give him a boner/sexual interest.
If you feel sorry for said ugly girl... don’t... jus cos you find Her ugly doesn’t mean someone else won’t, Beauty is in the eye of the beholder,Don’t try n force yourself to Be with her to try and cheer her up and be a good person... but instead wait for someone who is physically attracted to her to come swoop her up, that’s what a real good person would do
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In my case it happened viceversa. The connection was mental, then physical, to some extent.
Deep down men are desperate to be loved and have a good woman to take care of them. Looks aren't so important when it comes to who you want to spend the rest of your life with.
No, They were just teenagers
@Zach1457 sorry think you've commented on the wrong comment
Yeah very true, I can see a girl who is average become hot to me if her personality is great,But if the girl started off ugly... I will never be attracted to her no matter how good her personality is,Sounds mean but it’s jus the truth,
Yeah that’s talk true, there’s Rhiannon misconception nowadays that “it isn’t but about how good you look, it’s how good you are on the inside”And that is utter bull shit,I mean sure if you’re average or 5/10 in looks with a great personality then your personality can make you seem more attractive to a certain individual and become 7/10...But if you jus look plain out ugly / below average to someone... that someone will never be attracted to you and fall in love with you, but instead will see you as a friend, that’s just how it is, society needs to accept this and stop pretending
How can you be attracted to someone you find ugly? Impossible
@NameWidNoFace yeah I mean some of the guys who have aggressively shown interest in me were EXTREMELY ugly, so even if I was paid I wouldn’t wanna be with them or stay friends with them because I know they will want more. Like just because YOU find me attractive do I have to talk to you?
Yeah it’s dumb lol
How do you fall for someone like that yet dont have any physical attraction? Did you ever end up being with them?
@bobalife by physical attraction I don't get sexual attraction.I like those girls and yes it happens. You love the person but not lust after their body
That doesn't make any sense though.. Dating while asexual? Its like eating food that tastes like nothing. Sure its possible, but why bother?
@Hunter7754 I like the way you said that and honestly yea I have the same question
Of course, I meant to say, and when he does, she becomes attractive. Having pronoun problems.~JSmith
Another example would be is if your mom is really "beautiful" but growing up, she's abusive. You won't find people who looks like her or have her vibe appearance wise attractive even if majority of people think so.
Such an unflattering profile pic. You're going to kill boners.
Does it look like I give a fuck... Naw 🤣... And it seems rather perfect 💯 lol
nah it’s a good idea now i want my pfp to be like that lmaoo
Yasss thanks girl.. Stache for the winn
@Dr_Sausa damn dude lmao
@Dr why would people with boners be on here in the first place lol
Well, tell us the answer.. better question: is it possible to fall out of love once a woman is no longer in her prime?
@On_cloud_wine what makes you think you are out of your prime?
If he keeps himself in shape and she decides to gain 50lbs I could see that being a problem.
My question isn’t regarding myself, and I can see that a couple who eats together gains weight together... but that’s besides the point. If you’re in love, how does appearance truly matter? I’ve had way more feeling for someone less attractive than some hott guy with a horrible attitude about life. Attraction gross, beauty is within, and if you don’t agree, how can you ever see marriage in your horizon. That’s forever
So you’d put it in your vows that as long as you don’t gain weight like you promised, I’ll marry you... May as well stay single forever so you can surround yourself by beautiful woman all day
@On_cloud_wine lets take this conversation to DM
So if you stay in shape and she gains weight, that’s a problem, but if you both gain weight, it’s STILL a problem but you pretend to still be in love?
This just SCREAMS superficial love. #bachelor4life
@On_cloud_wine I thought you were smarter than this.
Smarter to not oversimplify and make rash judgements. I’ve met some pretty fucking superficial women myself in my life.
I’m not judging, it just doesn’t make sense to me
You got to be realistically attractive for your age and capabilities. That doesn’t mean a man will automatically ditch his wife if she starts slipping a bit. But if she gets a real attitude about it and doesn’t want to improve then there is a problem.
You’re gonna lose your eyesight one day, walking with a cane and walker, wrinkly and bald.. I’m not just talking about physical fitness.
Something about this has really set you off. There are some other things you have said that struck a nerve with me. But I’m not going to rant on this question. If became an alcoholic, stopped exercising, didn’t take of my teeth, personal hygiene, etc. I wouldn’t expect my girlfriend or wife to stay with me long.
@On_cloud_wine it’s about what is realistic and what isn’t. Aging is unavoidable. But being lazy is a decision. There is a difference.
@On_cloud_wine thank you.
So caring about your personal hygiene is an important quality you look for in a woman, and aging is not a factor? Or that much of a factor to consider?
@On_cloud_wine aging is inevitable. I cut off a grown ass woman (year older than me) for respect reasons. Long story but she thought I was okay with the unannounced friendzone which is completely insane. A grown ass woman her age should know better. But back to looks. Everybody is going to age. The question is are you going to take of your body? Or are you going to eat like crap, not exercise and put on weight and blame “fat shaming” for it? I will never ditch a woman just because she is aging. I’m aging. I will lose interest if she wants to go out dinners all the time, not exercise or worse get an attitude about it.
tad sexist man
Yes you and your countless of experience being male. This is true for some but not for all
@bomwat true but you can also fall in love with a girl and wants sex assured with her,Jus cos you want to have sex with that girl who you so called “love” doesn’t mean you don’t love her,For guys sex is a big part of the emotional connection in a relationship that’s why we desire it
Actually it is
When you dont have standards and aren't attractive yourseld i guess sure. Speak for yourself