I think I’m about the same, my passions, hobbies, interests, stuff like music, travel, dates, food, video games, movies, pets, anything really we have in common. It’s hard for me to keep the conversation going though. I feel like I’m the one keeping it afloat but he seems interested at the same time? I don't know
If you share all of that and he can’t find something in common or relate then maybe he’s not the best match for you. I really enjoy conversations so when they become one sided it’s frustrating.
Yeah! You’re probably right, I give people the benefit of the doubt sometimes because they may suck at texting or may just be inexperienced but I also want someone to reciprocate MY energy. I love getting to know people through text for a bit and when I feel comfortable we can go on dates :-)
That makes sense. It’s also challenging these days because you assume if you meet someone online on say tinder or match they are available to go on a date. But stats show only ~25% are actually even there for dating purposes. So while I agree with the initial few days of chatting to screen someone, I usually initiate making plans for a first meeting rather soon because no one wants to waste 2 months just chatting when they could be dating irl all that time.
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It’s just a term young people use when they’re getting to know each other before dating or becoming official, not that deep lol
I just can't imagine dating someone, or continuing to date someone, who only has a certain time period's worth of conversation. Seriously, if you run out of shit to say, then go get kidnapped or something so you have something new to talk about. Fuck's sake.