I know. Like I want to be able to pay for us to do stuff
Maybe you should let him know that. If you tell him and let him know that you’re okay with it and want to, he might be able to put his ego or his instinct to always pay a side.
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He absolutely refuses. He claim that me paying would be make him less masculine. So he would rather not do anything with each other than allow me to play
I hate to say it but it seems like his attitude is a bit antiquated. If that's all it takes to make him feel less masculine I have a feeling he is not very masculine in the first place. I think it's cool when a girl offers to pay it shows she is not a mooch. And aren't we all supposed to be equal these days anyway. And he would rather do nothing than have you pay. Are you kidding me. i think the general purpose of dating is to find someone to be with. So the proper attitude should be I'm willing to do whatever it takes to spend quality time with you. Others it's time to find someone I want to spend quality time with. I had a lot of silly preconceived notions when I was young. Including the pay for the date one. But the more appealing the woman was to me the more I was willing to shed those notions
But that doesn’t mean he show always pay