There's this guy... We have fundamentally different opinions (he's a traditionalist and I'm a bisexual feminist who believes in racial and gender equality) BUT we get along really well, he's quite easy to talk to and we tease eachother all the time. We have some history of him wanting me and me rejecting him (more than once) but I know there's something more. I honestly think we shouldn't get into a relationship because we would go into it trying to change the other and that's not what the realtionship should be based on. I don't want to fall for him because of all the drama we've already been through, but something seems to keep pulling me back into it. How am I supposed to deal with it?