Yeah I actually think the girl with sunglasses and the girl in the jeans and white t-shirt are both quite attractive.Obviously being fat isn't an attractive quality to most people, but how you present yourself is also a big part of how attractive you are. I would date a bigger girl like the 4 bottom pics who dresses nice and has good hygiene over a skinny girl who has bad hygiene and dresses like a slob.
Actual, if you give the first one a new nice hairstyle, sexy clothes and some training in hot looking... she wouldn't be that different from the others...So its not how sexy she is, its about how sexy she could be if she would be happy
Even if i did diet and exercise more better it wouldn't of prevented my disease either according to my doctor.
I like bigger women, you're probably cute :)
@Juxtapose women don't date short men either. Is that more fixable than weight?
@johnsmall23 Outside of tinder I haven't really seen that hold guys back.
@Juxtapose you think girls would like a 5'3 guy?
No offense intended, but there is no such thing as unexplained weight gain. There is only one way to gain weight, consume more calories than you use up. So eating less will always result in weight loss as long as you don't also expend fewer calories at the same time. There are some medications that can make weight loss more difficult, but the rule still applies. If you eat less calories or burn more calories, you will lose weight. There are no exceptions to this rule. It's basic biology.Being overweight has a big psychological component to it. People who are overweight often live in denial and find endless excuses why they are in such condition. I sympathize with it, it must be terribly painful to have a condition you feel powerless to control. But the fact is that you are not powerless to control it. So the sooner you are able to face that truth, the sooner you can help yourself feel better about yourself. It's not a matter of being "at fault" it's a matter of facing reality and doing something for yourself to make you feel happier. Only you can make that happen. There is often a difficult psychological journey necessary to get to that place. But it is always possible if you want it enough.
I don't think any doctor would say that a patient had "unexplained weight gain." I think that is a misinterpretation. There is no such thing as unexplained weight gain.
@juxtapose I would date a short guy tho. I honestly used to have a crush on one.
@ringoffire that's what it also says online and other people who have my disease experienced the same thing and they even dieted more.
I wish you all the best. Think about what I said. I hope it turns out to be something that is lifechanging for you.
See? She will get down with a short dude.
No such thing. People who make excuses like you are doing, are not responsible people. Can't trust them. The most undateable thing about you isn't your weight but your terrible attitude.
Welp not everyone is gonna like u hun that’s life so what if a guy doesn’t like u cause your over weight😭your not the center of the earth
@savagegirl101 OK lol and i don't care never said i was im just saying its ALSO life and some people can't help or prevent if they get sick. Like do you listen? A singer who seemed to be perfectly healthy got cancer? Nothing discriminates people no matter how you look in the end you can do your best to take care of yourself but doesn't mean were made of magic even the healthiest person in good shape can get sick. All i was doing was making a point that not all overweight or bigger girls are lazy. Bye.
Ok and? Y’all mad that some men don’t wanna date fat girls oh well
I don't really care who and who doesn't want to date me anymore. Life is too short and i have no time for bullshit. I just cut those people off especially if they have no respect. Your attitude sounds so stuck up and snotty
Lmaooo😭😭😭✋my attitude is stuck up cause I’m telling u the truth?😭u butthurt Over that? Jesus get over yourself
I actually have a boyfriend and have had MANY guys want me soo even now they do and i am confident with myself and know my weight doesn't define me because I do control what i eat and exercise even though its hard to lose weight I know I can lose some. You wouldn't know sh** at 18 cause i didn't either honey and im 22
Ummm didn’t ask for your life story seems like u need a therapist with all that venting online to a stranger 😳seek help babydoll🤠❤️
@SavageGirl101 why don't you seek a therapist, clearly the girl has a illness, you're pathetic and ignorant, all of you, can't believe the world today🤦♀️ Why would she lie about that? What would she gain? If her doctor told her something and she knows people with the same illness, why are you discouraging her? I don't understand, and she's not telling her "life story" don't do that, she's letting your dunce ass UNDERSTAND something which clearly you DO NOT. So my advice to all of you is, if you have nothing better to say, DON'T. 🤦♀️
Damn u wrote a whole paragraph for nothing nobody’s reading that shit it’s to early for that❤️try again
@SavageGirl101 see? IGNORANT AT ITS FINEST. okay baby love. Have a good day. Don't care, don't count on it, stay away from covid. ❤
Bye go bug someone else 🤠👍
@Nina12346 well said nina
I love a good cat fight! MROWWWWWWWWWW!! :D
I agree 1 million per cent with you
@PeterCharie1991 thank you I try. Also this is not a cat fight down boys. Lmao 😂😂
@Nina12346 lol she's literally too lazy to read a short paragraph.
@Juxtapose right? she should work on herself instead of bringing down others with her stupidity.
This!!! I used to be grossly overweight, then I lost weight. Not to impress a guy, but for myself. But all those guys that rejected me because I was fat missed out because they wouldn't give me a chance and just saw a "fat, ugly girl."Their loss.
You are 100 % right 💋
This is very true. It’s a BIG red flag to me though when a woman allowed herself to be obese at a point in her life. Why didn’t she take care of herself? Will she allow herself to do that again? Those are the questions I ask myself.
And maybe she she has a medical issue that is not her fault and it dont change her as a woman a caring woman a loving woman only shallow men think of everything to make an excuse for not being with them just say it you want hot hard body why lie about it. Get some age on you and you will think differently
@Dreamgirl97xo people don't change themselves for their partner and a lot of women will be offended if you start dating them and then immediately expect them to change themselves. Rightly so too, who would date somebody they didn't like just to try and turn that person into their "type"? That would be manipilative af. In my opinion it's better to just date people who already meet your standards.
@pantyloverr yeah, who needs physical attraction? Just stop being shallow and date those fat girls!!!Tell me, would you say the same thing to women who refused to date an autistic man? Would you tell women it's shallow to go after short guys? Would you tell women they're shallow for refusing to date a homeless man? Probably not, but shaming men is starting to get really popular.
@Cynicaldreamer have you ever rejected any man for a shallow reason?
it’s the same with me, I’m skinny and slender and I’ve had guys try to change me and be like “you’d look so much better with more weight on let’s get you bulking up” I want a guy to accept me for being naturally thin, if he can’t then bye bye
That a girl. And let me just say wow you look amazing you are stunningly gorgeous and to me very sexy. Any guy that wants to change you is crazy as hell sweetie. Im in awww of you over here 🔥🔥❤❤❤
Aw thank you, means a lot 🥰🥰 I am under weight but my body doesn’t allow me to gain weight easily so I guess guys are gonna accept that
@devilman666 Nope. As a matter of fact, both of my exes were overweight AND I looked over it because I liked their personality. Mind you, I was also overweight at the time and I had lower self esteem. Now I'm in shape and healthier, so would I still date an overweight guy? Yes. But only if he had a good personality, and he was willing to at least try and change his lifestyle or keep up with me.
Your very welcome honey put these all over you 💋💋💋💋💋💋💋💋💋
@Cynicaldreamer that wasn't my question, I asked "for any shallow reason?". Would you date a poor man? Would you date a short man? Would you date an autistic man? These are only a few shallow reasons why men often get rejected.
@Dreamgirl97xo I feel you, I'm 6'1" and 130 lbs as a guy. You think skinny women have it tough? It feels like skinny guys often don't even get viewed as men, because they look fragile. Not trying to be rude or insensitive or to minimize your issue, I just feel like men's side of this doesn't get discussed enough.
Wonderful response dreamgirl
@Cynicaldreamer see I’m gonna have to disagree with you on that because I would hate for a guy to only date me cause of my personality, bitch.. he gotta love my face, body, voice as well. If a guy honestly said to me “you’ve not got the best body but your personality makes up for it” I’d be so hurt. I’d rather just wait for a guy to come along that likes me for my skin colour, weight, personality... the whole package. Whenever someone says “I’m with my boyfriend for his personality” is lowkey just saying her boyfriend isn’t that good looking
@Dreamgirl97xo agreed. I call those ‘back handed compliments’.
@Dreamgirl97x "Whenever someone says “I’m with my boyfriend for his personality” is lowkey just saying her boyfriend isn’t that good looking" And you're absolutely right: they weren't: not even going to lie. But as I said, I had low self esteem, was desperate, and I was happy that someone... anyone, found me attractive- I was young, stupid, and immature at the time; I've learned since then.But I fell for them over time and looked past their looks, that's MY point: looks aren't everything!!! I know I'm not that attractive and am not ashamed to admit it. Hell do you really think I'd be single for 12, 13 years now if I was attractive? NO.So if a guy is more attracted to my personality than my looks, that won't offend me. It shows he's not superficial and appreciates the real me 😊
Point taken. Well the guy I’m seeing never compliments me, hasn’t tried it on with me, I’m used to guys saying “come back to mine you’re so sexy” he isn’t vocal like that. He also agreed with me that I’m underweight, I know you shouldn’t sugar coat things but I was hoping for him to say “no babe you’re perfect how you are” I don't know that’s why I want a guy to constantly boost me up about my looks cause if he’s just taking me out on dates but doesn’t want alone time with me at his place he might just see me as a friend and I’ve been friend zoned before
I dont understand that dreamgirl you are absolutely stunning
@devilmann666 Oh, my apologies! I thought you meant "ugly" or overweight guys due to the question asked.It would depend, simple as that. And looking back, I would have dated a short guy I was interested in back in college (he was 5'4", 5'5" I believe). I was very interested in him, but he ghosted me 🙄My point is I don't just decide by looking at someone, "Oh, I want to date him, he's hot!" I have to get to know him first
Cynicaldreamer. I love how you think you have a great heart sweetie
Remember girls, a jobless drug addict can become a rich, charming businessman.Work with him and encourage him.
@kuraj lol well said
Bullshit when i say some bitch is fat they just get offended no matter how you phase it. Then they just stay fat.
@Cynicaldreamer my point is that almost everyone is shallow about something, so almost anyone who is trying to shame people for being shallow is being a hypocrite. I'm glad you're not as shallow as most, but you would be an exception, not a rule.
The biggest issue I have with that mentality is that (and this is a generalisation) women that I've met over the years that had some extra pounds who then lost weight suddenly became very up themselves and thought they then deserved a better guy (not my girlfriends FYI) because they're now more attractive. Noticed the same thing when a girl started wearing makeup and she got a bit more attention she suddenly started thinking she was god's gift to men. While this doesn't apply to every woman going it sure as hell seems to be more of a trend present in women than men (who usually think they're god's gift anyway).
Like she would work with you if you were the one who was fat and she had other options🤔... I say leave her be, let her work on herself... why should it be okay when a woman is fat but its unacceptable when a man is? altho all men are free to do what they want and date whoever they want, I personally dont see the use in being fit knowing fully well I can get someone who works on herself and then I'll just settle for a fatty.🤨
Silver 158 gets it.😌
@martinxdenver It's more the fact that these guys supported her when she was fat and her weight loss journey and through other issues like joblessness and going back into education or training then as soon as they're slim they're like "none of that matters I can get a guy with a 6 pack now... byeeeee"
Silver 158 dropping facts😂😂😂
@dreamgirl97xo why is this downvoted?
John smalls lowkey knows why😂😂
easier and more ensuring to jus pick a normal weight instead, there's no guarentee the fat bitch will lose weight if you encourage her
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Down votes: I am not attracted to obese women. Do you think I should pretend to be attracted so I don't offend anyone?
theyre jus retarded like most of the worldignore those dipshits
A few years older than 30, sure, but a guy in his 60s? HELLLL NO!
@navyrobin You are assuming that I would be interested?
That’s Inot nice
"Curvy" and "fat" are the same thing, dude. Simply by different names.
@Posterboy56 Yeah you are right, but I find it hard to admit it's the same thing, so I am practicing. I think at some point when growing up I got the bullshit message it was bad to like "fat" women, that it meant you had a fat fetish or were desperate. I heard lots of guys in my life use "curvy" (UK). Took me a while to realise I was just playing with words saying "curvy" and redefining "fat" to mean "obese" to avoid judging myself and having others judge me.
You’re like one in 1 000 then. Lots of fat guys still expect to date a skinny ass girl LOL
@navyrobin Yup, but that's not right either. Those fat bastards need to hit the treadmill.
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I mean not necessarily, there are men out there with fat fetishes as well as men who simply do not care. Just gotta sort through the shallow dudes... do you take time to work on the rest of your appearance? Makeup, hair, nails, skin, outfits? Doing the most with what you have can help with your confidence and ultimately push you to get to a healthier weight! I should know lol
"Some girls look better with a bit of extra weight on their body."... Show me.
@Posterboy56 Do guys care if a curvy girl has some belly fat? ↗
@Posterboy56 Why are black women more naturally curvy than other women? ↗
First one-- solid no.Second one-- oh my God holy shit fucking no.
All of the females in those photos would look much, MUCH better if they were slimmer.
@Posterboy56 that is your choice.
It's not a matter of choice. It's a matter of objective reality.
@Posterboy56 I'm with you on this issue. Maybe SOME guys prefer a girl with "some meat on the bones," but some of us prefer girls who are closer to their ideal weight. We don't idealize those macaroni-and-cheese thighs, or biscuits-and-gravy butts!!! If other guys want that. . . have at it, but don't say that ALL guys want chunky chicks.
@OlderAndWiser don't recall saying all guys like the same type of female figure.
@OlderAndWiser yes I know many like the slim or athletic build. which I happen to also enjoy in some cases.
Fat is not synonymous with being unhealthy. Lol