Weight is not "just a number." It's "just a number" that translates directly into how healthy and attractive you are, or are not.
... It's not hypothyroidism. And I am supportive of her; nothing has changed.
Then help her out in losing weight.. only if she wants to loose weight.. and take care of her health n be with her like normal 😄
How should I help her?
With her diet things.. and exercise and emotionally be supportive something like that
I've been supportive. Nothing has changed.
No, it's not very good that nothing has changed.
Let her do all the work in bed
@Not-karen Yeah but bed interests me less and less due to her weight.
Then talk to a bariatric doctor! Thats the answer what else do you want?
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Yeah, she's trying... sort of. And we've been together for a long time and it really bothers me because I'm not as attracted to her any more.
I can understand that I would feel the same if it was a man
Cheating shatters people self esteem and can cause them to be depressed therefore gaining more weight sitting at home and eating their emotions.You can leave someone but still be human and decent about it. Just leave with dignity and character.
No. If she's let herself go so much already, she needs a reality check
Again it is counter productive and not a reality check. But I assume it is hopeless to try and show you the difference since you lack the moral compass to leave with dignity and you would rather be a cheater. wow I don't know who needs the reality check here
Maybe. I dunno.
Damn aren't you a keeper?
Cheating is never the answer, depression may have caused her to weight gain in the first place. But I can understand if he leaves her
She already knows though.
And she's not doing anything about it despite being aware of the fact that you don't like it?
She's trying, and failing, is the problem.
That's tough. You sure she doing it right? There could be an underlying problem that you two may not be aware of. Some hormones that give her a hard time losing weight? Consider an expert if possible.
She's obviously not doing it right or she would have lost the weight. And the only thing I could think of would be her birth control. But plenty of girls take that and don't gain weight.
@Posterboy56 plenty of women suffer from the side effects of birth control including gaining or losing weight. Search about it or advise her to discuss this with her GYN. Stress or depression can cause weight gain too. Anyway hope you guys find a way.
@mindNsoul Me too.
I don't understand your question
And i don't understand yours
Then you aren't very bright.