I only talked to him for months... he ended up basically in a relationship with someone else and kept it from me. But then they broke up and he continued to talk to me again.. But says we’d never be together so I took that as a I should start talking to other people and stop wasting my time...
I’ve never asked anything of him besides being honest with me.
What you got a really ask yourself is this? Would you date somebody that behaves that way? What you have to understand is that he used you as an option. I went through very similar experience even though I myself is not looking for that kind of relationship at all with men on that level. I do not like it when a person is not being honest and they choose to play games irregardless if you are a male or female. This guy is nothing more but a player. When I want to know is why people talk about that talkin quote on quote to a person, they don't befriend them, they just ask friendly known that they want something else out of it, and then want to know why they have these problems. If you are not friends with this person which obviously you are not, this is one of the key things that you will end up falling into. In my experience, I was supposedly a friend to somebody, but that person was only taking advantage of me by playing with my emotions, thanking with friends, and then was speaking to another woman at the same time that person was speaking to me. Now if I was so naive and insecure like how was when I was very young, I would have been in big trouble. If he said that you two would never be together obviously that is your cue that you are free to be with someone else. He just wants to control you. And that is a major red flag.
He’s also told me he’s not good enough for me.. he’s too “damaged” But anytime we say we’re done with each other we end up coming back to each other.. And he’s been opening up a lot to me lately.. I’m trying to actually be done done but It’s been hard.. I can’t even talk to other guys.
Ok, alexis and Keith
honestly, the people of this site, fucking suck, learn something
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