We've been together for 5 years and we've always spend time with each others families especially on holidays but after 4 years of dating, he never seems to want to see my family on special occasions. I understand that there's reasons sometimes but lately he's been making it seem like we have to do everything with his family and not mine. Which I think is unfair and I'm supposed to be okay when he doesn't want to see my family but if I were to do the same, according to him I'm a bitch. It's not like I don't like his family but it would be nice to see mine once in awhile. So I don't know what to tell him to understand.