He said he doesn’t want to ‘label’ things but talks about our future?

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The guy I’m dating has told me he enjoys what we’re doing and how we’re dating/talking/spending time with eachother, but he doesn’t want to ‘label anything’.

It’s been a few months. We talk for hours and and he always says he wants to spend more time with me. Sometimes he’s a bit hot and cold.

He says he doesn’t want to label things and then refer to the future ‘when we’re a couple’ and when we have kids, and planning future holidays, dates, things to do.

I don’t get it, if he doesn’t want to label things why is he talking about a future with me? Am I wasting my time?
He said he doesn’t want to ‘label’ things but talks about our future?
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