so a little background about me: I battled Anorexia from 16 to 22 and then battled body Dysmorphia from 19 to 24 years old. So a lot of body and self confidence issues. Due to the trauma I was going through I didn’t really have the opportunity to date and I settled for druggies in my highschool. But, it feels like I haven’t matured dating wise as a 25 year old female, presently. For instance, I went out on a date with a guy who gets high all the time, (I knew of him in highschool and never thought I’d get a chance with him) and has never had to work for anything. I am still attracted to guys that resemble stupid stuff that a high schooler does. How can I stop this?