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Am I taking this too far?

I work with a girl and sometimes we would get pretty flirty with her. I found out on social media she has a boyfriend an had an elaborate way to find out from her by asking who she went on vacation with but she said that she went with her friends. She lied because she went with him. Finally after a few months I met the dude after he came to work.
I decided to pull away from her. I used to come up to her desk and we would flirt, joke around and just have a good time. Now I no longer approach her nor do I flirt. The only thing I initiate now is a simple "Hello". It seems like now she's the one who comes up to me or starts any interactions.
Am I doing the right thing or too much?
Am I taking this too far?
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