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What should I do about my long term boyfriend not listening to me?

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I've been with my boyfriend for close to 5 years. I enjoy his company and he's a good guy. But he literally never makes plans to see me. Its always me asking him out and usually he complains about whatever I plan until I get upset then he'll agree to go out.

I've told him twice now that I want to go out on a proper date at least once a week. I also said we will alternate on who makes plans each week so it's not just one person always thinking about stuff to do.

He complained about that saying that was too much.

Anyways last week I did it first and this week was supposed to be his week and he never said anything. I purposefully didn't mention anything to him all week because I wanted to see if he would follow through.

I'm really disappointed that he didn't make date plans for us.

What should I do? Again this is the second time I've told him I want us to see each other more :(
What should I do about my long term boyfriend not listening to me?
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