My boyfriend and I have been dating for 2 years. I find that his a very chill relax guy, he doesn’t really take initiative and plan out random cute dates. Just one day message me get ready i got plans for us going to take us somewhere. He knows I like that sort of stuff, everyone around me including my sibling boyfriends are all so romantic they go above and beyond to there partner. Plan romantic dinners, have an activity plan, go road trips. I find that I’m usually the one suggesting to go places. Even when it comes to birthdays or Christmas he doesn’t know what to get me he always asks me not that I’m even bothered with presents. But just the simple things like flowers and a meaningful card I’d be happy. I don’t know what to do or say to him to start taking his own initative it’s nice to sometimes have surprises or feeling spoilt and special.