Should I tell him about my ex?

[DannyUk2017]

Of course you have to tell him, your Ex might try to make a scene then and there, and you don't want that. You want to enjoy ur evening.
And plus Your Ex might think that you've done that on Purpose, showing up with your New boyfriend, so it better to be Safe than Sorry! 😉

[ObscuredBeyond]

Just be frank: "Someone works here that I'd rather avoid. Once thought he was cool, but it didn't end well."

That should be enough.

[caring__1]

If you can't be open and honest with your boyfriend, don't expect him to be open and honest with you. Sharing specific details about past experiences generally won't add anything special to your present relationship, but sharing what you've learned from past relationships will. You can say you dated the bartender at this restaurant for a short time, but it didn't work out. If he asks what caused it to not work out, just tell him you didn't see the considerate treatment you value in a partner. If you tell him he treated you like crap and ghosted you, he'll assume, if your relationship doesn't work, you'll bad mouth him to others, also.

[87609lf]

NOOOOOOOOOOOOOO FCK! no! just no not ever. I'ts not gonna be the same after, n the restraunt can go too bcs he knows!

[Dave31989]

if you talk about your ex, he'll think you're still hung up on our ex... as in.. you still like him

[dadas187]

Yes on case the ex feels like showing off to get you for one night

[likelyOK]

Tough call, following

[ItsTheNephilim]

Sure, tell him about it.

[Wise4myage]

I say pick another place to heat.

[In_Trance]

Yea you should