He doesn't let me pay so he wants to provide. The problem is i am not sure if i like him, and maybe if i tell him after some time that i don't want to date him, he might feel used then?
That's why I pay for my own cost and stuff. I don't like grey areas usually and if I someone did me wrong and I broke up with him I don't want that to be misinterpreted by me needing his money. It's his character and nothing else.So I have rejected men paying for me or buying me things. If it was a meal I would always offer to split but if he insists I wouldn't fight over it. I need to really like someone and be in a relationship with so I can accept gifts. But I also give gifts.I think these moral standards are very dependent on you. You set the rules that make you comfortable. What works for one person might not work for another.
I offer but he doesn't agree so i let him pay. But my friend said i shouldn't go on trips with him every weekend if he doesn't let me pay, but i think she is just jealous, he wants to pay i just let him
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