I basically said that. I said "If you don't mind me asking, is there something I did wrong that led you to lose interest, or was it more just losing interest on your end? I'm only asking so I can know if I need to improve myself, I won't try to change your mind"
That is verry good wording of the question on your end. Good job.Now just see if they respond and what they respond with.Be prepared as I said, and try to give it nuance, don't take it hard.
I appreciate your input! Now that I think about it, there was a time she gave me some criticism. I explained my behavior part of it and I conceded to the criticism for the other part of it. So she may be thinking that she already gave me criticism and so now she doesn't need to
Could be it. She doesn't owe you an explanation so that is also something to be aware of.Just no, (i lost interest) is also an answer. Maybe she doesn't even know why herself. Or she can't communicate it properly.Either way, you did your best.
She said it was about communication. She said "I felt I didn't get to know who you were because you were trying to figure out who I was and figure out who you were too." I disagree, but I didn't try to argue
It's good to learn other people's likes and dislikes. To better understand people in general. But one woman's opinion or preference shouldn't matter enough to change the way you are. All that would lead to is "tricking" them into liking you or being interested.
So basically she was just confused and probably still is. She has issues with herself and can't figure you out for whatever reason.Doesn't have to be your fault, it could be her entirely.She was not ready for you and you deserve someone who is.
@LittleTurtleDuck ok thanks for your help. I really appreciate it!
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You mean they try to make it look like it is your fault when it was really theirs?