*claps* couldn't have said it any better
@Be4rdy The truth has been there all along, I just think most people don't really want to see it.
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Just from experience i knew thisBut the surveys back it upSo that's good
For sex yes for committed relationship no.
@Mamamialetmego Don't be a virgin yes for committed relationships too stop simping.
Note how you get 9 thumbs up from guys one from a woman who's decent probably lesbian tho. But also a thumbs down from a girl here's the biggest issue even when we tell them the problem they'll give it a thumbs down and ignore it.
@Daniel3035 dude this study proof yes but what study actually says women go for looks when it comes to short term relationships (casual sex) but if it is long term relationship or marriage they care more about money anf personality more than looks.
@Mamamialetmego I agree it applies more towards casual sex.
@Mamamialetmego Let me ask you this when looking at a woman for casual dating/sex are the requirements different when looking at long term relationships or marriage? I for one have the same requirements maybe a girl has made it appear that way and I wouldn't be surprised if that was the case these girls know how to lie but the reality is a taste for casual sex and marriage wouldn't change can't see how that's humanly possible.
@Daniel3035 There is a difference. When women hook up, or want to, it's often for hot guys. But often the same woman can settle down with an average joe, but who is stable. You won't see a lot of average guys do too well at the club, unless he's very confident and charming. But I've seen plenty of average looking dudes with cute women. It's because women will give in a little for looks with a relationship. But not all the way, generally people date withing their leagues. Often women and men around the same range of looks date and women who are 10s, are more often with good looking guys too. But more often hot women picking handsome guys for sex, but less strict on that or guys may be attractive but don't have to be as hot for a serious relationship.
Women rate men as less attractive because they ARE less attractive because they put way less effort into their physical appearance.A guy who didn't even put a comb through his hair can't expect to be rated as attractive as a woman who spent 30 minutes doing her hair and 10 minutes putting on makeup.
If a woman used the same routine as most men (jump out of bed, don't put on makeup, don't do hair, don't even put a comb through hair) men would rate her just as unattractive as women rate men.
@brennanhuff Oh I think I get you now it's not the case of a specific requirement but preferences lie in a range like they sacrifice some things for others which makes more sense then that's possible and even I do that myself so I get you there. But if like girls go for a 5 casual sex and a 9 dating I'd say impossible but if like in a range of 7-9 where 7 is for casual sex and 9 for dating I'd say that's more realistic.
@Daniel3035 Women always lower their standards for casual sex. That's why they can't ever find a good man and get married.
"Women rate men as less attractive because they ARE less attractive because they put way less effort into their physical appearance. A guy who didn't even put a comb through his hair can't expect to be rated as attractive as a woman who spent 30 minutes doing her hair and 10 minutes putting on makeup."I agree with @mistixs on that one.
@Jamie05rhs yeah it amazes me that men think they should be viewed equally as attractive after 2 minutes of effort as a woman looks after an hour of effort. It seems pretty entitled to me.
@mistixs there must be a lot of slobs, because many guys wash up, dress decent or well and shave or brush their hair. I mean I'm kind of fixed with my looks there, since I don't have hair to style lol as I'm bald. But I just have it shaved or buzzed really low and I guess I'm lucky, because girls still find me handsome. I think I'm lucky in that I've had enough implications in my life of being a handsome guy, but I lucked out in having a round, aerodynamic head ha or face that works with being bald. There are some guy's who don't just make it tolerable, but rock it. Like dwayne johnson for instance, who I think looks better bald than when he had hair. But like dudes aren't going to put on make up, nor do girls want guys to do that ha. Yeah putting in some effort does a lot though, dressing well makes a difference. I think guy's take it too literally with women being less visual than men too. Like women are more visual than what's let on and the difference appearance makes. Like I've noticed a difference wearing a casual shirt and shorts in the summer, vs having nice pants and a form fitted polo short where it kind shows my arms off. The shit is not tight, I don't do that, but just form fitted and when dressing well, but also clothes that aren't baggy, nor tight, but form fitted, I've noticed women seeming to glance or check me out at times
Actually I am a man but most women look at me and say sorry you are too short I like my men 5”07 or taller
True that. Well put
Thing is I am a handsome guy but one thing most woman that I try to date later on find out that I was a assistant to a MMA school and motivation speaker online
That's actually what I have seen too. It's good there are honest men out there
Nah if he can carry the vibe he’s automatically an 8/10 he ain’t gotta be all that.
Yes we include personality traits
@cute_short_nerd I was thinking more along the lines of things like height, wealth, etc.A man might have sex with a girl with no regard to her personality, but men definitely care about personality when it comes to actually investing time and effort into a potential relationship.
Idc about money lol barely anyone my age in my town has a job.
Very well put.
High standards = people are less likely to fit said standards.
Doesn't it my definition of high standards... your definition sounds like my definition of unrealistic standards.
Doesn't fit in my ***
Exactly. He just gotta carry the vibe.
My standards are so low at this point he just gotta be around my age, and carry the vibe. Maybe a bit taller. It’s not that hard to do I’m literally only 5’ tall. Like the average height is 5’6” it’s not that hard to be taller than me. I’m good if he’s only 5’2” I’m fine if he’s my height. Bro I just wanna dude that carries the vibe. All looks aside idgaf. Just the vibe.
The problem is if you keep your standards that low you'll meet some trash people that'll take advantage of that.
Yeah but someone who can carry the vibe is pretty rare these days. And for that reason that you stated, I don’t give second chances. None.
Really *sigh*, dont normalize gold diggers
Actually I don’t give a fuck about muscles or jawline or blue eyes or dick size (sex isn’t appealing to me in the slightest and in my opinion should be used for reproducing and making kids after marriage.) I just want someone who is willing to watch anime with me, and makes me laugh. Someone who can carry the vibe. I prefer green and brown eyes because they are cooler than blue eyes in my opinion. Honestly I think about the genetics they bring to the table (ie skin color, eye color, nose shape, eye shape.) and how well it would combine with my genes, I carry a recessive red hair gene that should appear in one of my children. Therefore I also look for kindness because if they do become a father I want them to treat them correctly and not diminish their confidence because of their hair color. (Kind, loving, patient, and funny. Also into some anime.) I don’t care about height or six packs, I mean I would prefer someone who’s a little chubby like I am so I don’t feel like I’m a fat ass and can eat food around him so I’m not so insecure about myself. I just want someone who can carry the vibe and I can be comfortable with.