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My boyfriend made me feel insecure. Is this reasonable?

Billie_
I can’t remember how we got onto the topic, but somehow we ended up talking about my ass. So he says to me, “You know, most people prefer big asses but I like still like yours.”

I was never insecure about my ass before this. He has essentially said, “Other people won’t find your ass attractive, but because I love you I do.”

When I told him this made me insecure he didn’t seem apologetic but said he wouldn’t do it again. And didn’t understand why I was upset.

Am I reasonable for taking offence to this? He’s made me feel like my body isn’t good enough for anyone and like I need to fix something. I’ve never felt insecure about my body like this before. He kept reiterating that I don’t fit the beauty standard, but why did he need to say this to me?
My boyfriend made me feel insecure. Is this reasonable?
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