Sorry the question was why should men approach not when
Why shouldn't they approach? Women should approach too. Got to be give and take. It's not ONLY the guy's job, but a lot of women expect it. The old caveman issue.
I thought was a reasonable answer like women are worthy of it but men aren’t. Like theoretically I never ask a girl out or propose to her I’ll never get married but a woman doesn’t have to worry about that. She just has to say something sexual or walk around half naked and she most likely be in a relationship. So I’m wondering why should men approach women if women don’t have to approach men.
Of course men are worth being approached! It's just not a sexual norm in WEstern society... I hope that's changing. Takes the pressure off.
I don't know I heard a girl say she would never approach a man or propose to him because it’s beneath her. That’s what I see women saying
Well she certainly wouldn' t be the type you'd want to connect with. I find the middle ground is usually the best to be on. I've never had an issue about talking to men first if I like their conversation, looks, poise. It's not "beneath" me. It's rational to go for what you want, not to wait around for it to find you. That's just lazy and stupid. Good luck for her!
That sad part is men will still sleep with her and maybe impregnate her. And she then raise children that carry on her way of thinking
Just worry about who you choose as your partner. And you raise good, sensible kids of both sexes, if you can.
I’m still trying to figure out why it up to me to choose a wife. I don’t think I’ll ever get a straight answer for it
I repeat. It's NOT up to you. It's about two people choosing EACH OTHER.
Yeah I’ve heard of people choosing there wife, but being 33 and never been in a relationship kinda seem far fetched for me to think that I have all these girls to choose. So I doubt that applies to me.
CHRIS!! You don't need ALL THESE GIRLS! It's not about quantity, it's about quality. You need a few. Three or four in a lifetime. Some end up good friends, one or two end up life partners. Of course it applies to you. But You need to be careful in your choices. It's not simply everyone YOU choose, or everyone who chooses you. There will be mistakes on both sides. It'll even out and there will be those few win-wins. That's the way it's happened to me.
I’m not saying I want all girls. I’m just saying that if most girls didn’t have the mind set that “men should approach me” and they just showed interest in the guy they like relationship for me at least would probably happen. Statistically speaking. Like there maybe a lot of girls that think I’m interesting or cute but they’ve been raised to just give subtle hint, and at the same time they’re looking for men to be direct and straight forward. To me that’s on fair. All I’m saying is that both sexes should be direct and straight forward then they’ll get what they want
That question was written wrong , it was supposed to be “why” should guys approach girls
Ah, i think then, to show dominance and let us know who we belong to, is my believe.
It’s a thin line between being dominant and sexually harassing a women, so guys are not trying to be labeled a creep anymore
True... It is getting harder for men. I gotta admit i find it sweet and adoring when a man walks up to me and tells me i look good.
Yeah those guys are a dying breed
True.. what about you yourself? You seem to be using this app as a sexual release rather than full on sex.
Sexual release? In what way
Well talking about sex helps some to release that tension.
Oh I’m just curious, cause girls in real life you think I’m creepy if I asked these questions in real life
Hmm, can i be extremely honest? It would include something that may sound racist.. hence i ask the question before just saying it. Don't want to come over as a biggot.
Yeah sure go ahead I rarely get offended
I'd say with how media raised most people and how parents are more hands off these days.. I'd say it would depend on the person, race combinations of what race you are talking to and what race is being talked to. It would also depend in what area you are in, how you are dressed and how the general DISCRIMINATORY bases on that race are seen.A lot of big words for: a lot of people will find if anyone would ask them these questions in real life.
Well where I’m from most people are easily offended by my questions like these so I just ask them on this app
It's a good idea to go on this app, there was also an app i think that is like this if you are looking for another?
This app is ok but it too easy for people to block others
True.. nvm the app i was going to mention, it requires you to buy a package to select genders.
Oh yeah I wouldn’t pay for that
Well Chris message me anytime you want, nice to see some people with brains left. 😉
I wish I could be I’m not on this app that often lol
Understandable, I've been on here all day now.
Lol well I guess you can see why girls hate me in this app
I don't understand if they hate you, they don't like you they shouldn't answer your question.
Maybe they like telling people how they feel
Merci for the answer thingy.
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So every girl has anxiety? I’m genuinely curious why girl feel like men should chase them.
I’m speaking for myself, I can’t speak for other girls 🤷🏻♀️
Ok so if guys stop approaching you doesn’t that mean you’ll probably never have a boyfriend
How else would you talk to a guy
I know plenty of guys, I just have anxiety talking to guys I don’t know.
So the guys you know, do you call them or talk them first.
Both some times they call or talk first or sometimes I do
And if you wanted a relationship with these guys you would wait for them to ask you out first?
You have to build up to that, you don’t just automatically ask to be in a relationship with someone bc those things progress slowly and with time
Lol I don't know most guys feel like they have progress the relationship while the girl gives them permission
It shouldn’t be like that
Yeah hopefully that changes