Can girls tell me when men should be the ones who approach instead of women?

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Especially if you believe men and women are equal

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Yoda

You have to read the woman you want to approach. This takes practice. In this era of Covid, there aren't too many places, such as bars, parties and so on where you CAN practice this art. Does the woman look at you and smile? Does she invite you over? Those are pretty sure signs she wants you to approach. Otherwise, it's the mysterious mix of hormones and opportunity. You'll be shot down 50 percent of the time AT MOST!! Good luck.

chris_987

13 d
Sorry the question was why should men approach not when
Screenwriter

13 d
Why shouldn't they approach? Women should approach too. Got to be give and take. It's not ONLY the guy's job, but a lot of women expect it. The old caveman issue.
chris_987

13 d
I thought was a reasonable answer like women are worthy of it but men aren’t. Like theoretically I never ask a girl out or propose to her I’ll never get married but a woman doesn’t have to worry about that. She just has to say something sexual or walk around half naked and she most likely be in a relationship. So I’m wondering why should men approach women if women don’t have to approach men.
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Screenwriter

13 d
Of course men are worth being approached! It's just not a sexual norm in WEstern society... I hope that's changing. Takes the pressure off.
chris_987

13 d
I don't know I heard a girl say she would never approach a man or propose to him because it’s beneath her. That’s what I see women saying
Screenwriter

13 d
Well she certainly wouldn' t be the type you'd want to connect with. I find the middle ground is usually the best to be on. I've never had an issue about talking to men first if I like their conversation, looks, poise. It's not "beneath" me. It's rational to go for what you want, not to wait around for it to find you. That's just lazy and stupid. Good luck for her!
chris_987

13 d
That sad part is men will still sleep with her and maybe impregnate her. And she then raise children that carry on her way of thinking
Screenwriter

13 d
Just worry about who you choose as your partner. And you raise good, sensible kids of both sexes, if you can.
chris_987

13 d
I’m still trying to figure out why it up to me to choose a wife. I don’t think I’ll ever get a straight answer for it
Screenwriter

13 d
I repeat. It's NOT up to you. It's about two people choosing EACH OTHER.
chris_987

13 d
Yeah I’ve heard of people choosing there wife, but being 33 and never been in a relationship kinda seem far fetched for me to think that I have all these girls to choose. So I doubt that applies to me.
Screenwriter

9 d
CHRIS!! You don't need ALL THESE GIRLS! It's not about quantity, it's about quality. You need a few. Three or four in a lifetime. Some end up good friends, one or two end up life partners. Of course it applies to you. But You need to be careful in your choices. It's not simply everyone YOU choose, or everyone who chooses you. There will be mistakes on both sides. It'll even out and there will be those few win-wins. That's the way it's happened to me.
chris_987

9 d
I’m not saying I want all girls. I’m just saying that if most girls didn’t have the mind set that “men should approach me” and they just showed interest in the guy they like relationship for me at least would probably happen. Statistically speaking. Like there maybe a lot of girls that think I’m interesting or cute but they’ve been raised to just give subtle hint, and at the same time they’re looking for men to be direct and straight forward. To me that’s on fair. All I’m saying is that both sexes should be direct and straight forward then they’ll get what they want

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