Would you stay in a polyamorous relationship in my situation?

[fireheart105]

It sounds like he doesn't want you as a partner but as a parent. It sounds like he's acting like a teen who just want to do whatever he wants without consequences so my advice is to look into yourself and see if you want him in your life. Dont think about if his attractiveness will be enough but I'd he could be something you can stay with. Personally I would leave and cut that person out. If you think in ugly then good for you, I'm out and focusing on me until i find the one wholl love all of me

[Shruxee]

Maybe friends is a better option if you’re not comfortable with a polygamous relationship, provided that being just friends would be possible for you if you still like him...

[Hangry22]

You did the right thing. He's trying to have the best of both worlds by taking advantage of you. If you accepted that, you would be in misery and in few years you will be making a question here on how to leave this guy who you got very much attached too

[Screenwriter]

A have your cake and eat it too man. He calls you "ugly" and you stay around? You're being abused already. Stop doing this to yourself and find someone who wants YOU.