Do men think that women who use dating apps are desperate?

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Answer 1

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I think everyone (guys and girls) who uses online dating/dating apps are either desperate or they just want sex. In talking to other guys, I find this to be the general consensus. My advice is to stop using Tinder or Plenty of Fish. If you REALLY feel like online dating is the only way you can meet someone, then use Hinge or something. Tinder (and sites/apps like it) are really only used by amature pick up artists and womanizers. I've always felt like I make a better connection with a girl in real life than I did online (I never used dating sites/apps but I met a few girls on social platforms). Don't listen to the guys saying shit like "Oh, it's not desperate at all" or "You're just not meeting the 'right quality' guys" because those guys are just liars or simps (maybe both). If you wanna meet a guy in real life then walk up to him and say hi. Don't expect guys to just flock around you or just walk up to you and ask you out. Even if a guy thinks you're cute, 9 times out of 10, they won't do anything but panic and avoid looking like a perv. It used to be that the only fears guys had in talking to a pretty girl is the fear of rejection, but in our current political enviroment guys have to worry about sexual harrasment charges also. It fucking sucks, but I hope this was in-depth enough and helps you out. Good luck.

Asker

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Thanks for your honesty because that was all that I was getting were dudes who wanted to get in my pants were on dating apps.

Answer 2

Asker

Thanks for your honesty because that was all that I was getting were dudes who wanted to get in my pants were on dating apps.

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Skankhunt | 170 opinions shared on Dating topic.

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Some are, some are using dating apps to boost their ego's and getting male attention.

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matthew0089

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Quite the contrary, I think they're stuck up. Women on these dating apps get this idea that WOW 300 MEN MESSAGED ME I MUST BE GOOD LOOKING, and they think they go from a 5-6 to a 9, and you'll see massive overweight blobs being SUUUUPER picky like they're great looking, when they're like 5 foot 190 pound women with cake face. Not to mention the fact that most woman on these apps are either fake, ewhorin, promoting their onlydans or begging for "sugar daddies" it just goes to show that dating apps are in general terrible.

Sweetheart666

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How about stop rating women like cattle. Toxic PUA red pill.
matthew0089

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Don't know what you just said but you're delousinal that I can tell.
matthew0089

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And I've never heard of rating cattle, couldn't come up with a better euphemism grandma?
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Sweetheart666

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If I’m a grandma that means you aren’t too far away from being a grandpa. I’m 35 with another baby in the way. Just saying calling someone a 5 or a 10 is much like how animals are judged. I know I judge them every year.
matthew0089

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I'm 23. And women like to block And belittle men on dating apps cause they aren't perfect male specimen. So, it's only fair to point out that these woman are average pretending they're supermodels because a zillion incels drool over them all day.

Answer 5

Sweetheart666

How about stop rating women like cattle. Toxic PUA red pill.

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matthew0089

Don't know what you just said but you're delousinal that I can tell.

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matthew0089

And I've never heard of rating cattle, couldn't come up with a better euphemism grandma?

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Sweetheart666

If I’m a grandma that means you aren’t too far away from being a grandpa. I’m 35 with another baby in the way. Just saying calling someone a 5 or a 10 is much like how animals are judged. I know I judge them every year.

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matthew0089

I'm 23. And women like to block And belittle men on dating apps cause they aren't perfect male specimen. So, it's only fair to point out that these woman are average pretending they're supermodels because a zillion incels drool over them all day.

Answer 10

Anonymous

"Desperate" is something you women create in your minds (by other women I think?). I don't get why it's so deep rooted in women and where it comes from? I personally NEVER look at a woman in any situation and have ever thought "desperate". So no of course not.

Answer 11

Anonymous

LMAO women who dating apps aren't looking for men... they just want to hurt and reject men with more volume... the type of men they demand ( top 5% ) don't need to use them anyway.

I remember reading a profile where the gal was easily 275 lbs but she made sure to say she will not date men 20 + pounds overweight. That is a perfect example of women in America.

Answer 12

Sweetheart666

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No. A lot of people I know who work odd shifts use them.

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A lot of men I came across on them just wanted sex or didn't give me the time of day.
Sweetheart666

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Oh see yes. You do have to weed those out. There are good ones out there though. Main thing to scare off the bad ones. Tell them you’d like to chat a week or two before meeting them. ONLY meet them in public.
Asker

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Not worth the trouble I think if a man can't approach a woman in person than why would online dating work. It is easy for men to talk to multiple women on there. Online dating isn't good if you have low self esteem either because it is easy for them to get manipulated. That used to be me I dont think I'll ever go back. Sometimes guys be acting like they are nice but turns out they aren't what you thought.

Answer 13

Asker

A lot of men I came across on them just wanted sex or didn't give me the time of day.

Answer 14

Sweetheart666

Oh see yes. You do have to weed those out. There are good ones out there though. Main thing to scare off the bad ones. Tell them you’d like to chat a week or two before meeting them. ONLY meet them in public.

Answer 15

Asker

Not worth the trouble I think if a man can't approach a woman in person than why would online dating work. It is easy for men to talk to multiple women on there. Online dating isn't good if you have low self esteem either because it is easy for them to get manipulated. That used to be me I dont think I'll ever go back. Sometimes guys be acting like they are nice but turns out they aren't what you thought.

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Cowboy6666 | 3K opinions shared on Dating topic.

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I dont think so
they want partner nothing wrong in looking online but there are usually playboys there mostly

Asker

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I always thought if a guy can't approach you in person why would it be any different by going online?
Cowboy6666

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yep nothing wrong to try that, i tried online too but didn't work for me as I am in Asia, so i am still single and looking for a girlfriend
Asker

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It usually causes a lot of problems meeting people in person especially when you dont have a car and they have to pick you up where you live. Yeah people like to act the fool they dont have respect for anybody.
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Cowboy6666

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by the way which country you from? did you find guys online?
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United states but a lot of men go on there because it is easy for them to talk to women and they feel rejection in person. Men on those apps just think that you are desperate and willing to out up with their bull crap. But no dating apps are not worth my time. I give God the trust to bring my husband to me in real life.
Cowboy6666

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I had not luck in online dating too people were fake and catfishes there and from another country.
and yes I will go for relationship instead of hook up if i find a girlfriend wherever i find her

Answer 17

Asker

I always thought if a guy can't approach you in person why would it be any different by going online?

Answer 18

Cowboy6666

yep nothing wrong to try that, i tried online too but didn't work for me as I am in Asia, so i am still single and looking for a girlfriend

Answer 19

Asker

It usually causes a lot of problems meeting people in person especially when you dont have a car and they have to pick you up where you live. Yeah people like to act the fool they dont have respect for anybody.

Answer 20

Cowboy6666

by the way which country you from? did you find guys online?

Answer 21

Asker

United states but a lot of men go on there because it is easy for them to talk to women and they feel rejection in person. Men on those apps just think that you are desperate and willing to out up with their bull crap. But no dating apps are not worth my time. I give God the trust to bring my husband to me in real life.

Answer 22

Cowboy6666

I had not luck in online dating too people were fake and catfishes there and from another country.
and yes I will go for relationship instead of hook up if i find a girlfriend wherever i find her

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pajamasam | 163 opinions shared on Dating topic.

Explorer

No, I always though women on dating apps thought that of the guys.

Answer 24

ABritonInAmerica

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They're just a way of putting yourself out there🤷🏻‍♀️

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TonyMetal___86 | 117 opinions shared on Dating topic.

Xper 6

Nope... a girl needs a man and love too...

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ronaldo75 | 325 opinions shared on Dating topic.

Explorer

Some are. Some aren't.

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geonator | 220 opinions shared on Dating topic.

Xper 7

I don't think so

Answer 28

Anonymous

Not at all.

Asker

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How come just about every guy on there just want to get into my pants?
Opinion Owner

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Because they are low quality guys. Which apps are you using?
Asker

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Just about everyone you can think of none of them gave me the time of day. I was a fool and had low self esteem so I used to allow people's bad behavior to effect me.
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Opinion Owner

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I would recommend Upward and Mutual; they have a reputation of being the opposite of a hookup site.
Sweetheart666

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Yeah I agree. Some of those dating sites are pretty much just hookup culture. I do know people who have met their spouse on them though too.

Answer 29

Asker

How come just about every guy on there just want to get into my pants?

Answer 30

Opinion Owner

Because they are low quality guys. Which apps are you using?

Answer 31

Asker

Just about everyone you can think of none of them gave me the time of day. I was a fool and had low self esteem so I used to allow people's bad behavior to effect me.

Answer 32

Opinion Owner

I would recommend Upward and Mutual; they have a reputation of being the opposite of a hookup site.

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Sweetheart666

Yeah I agree. Some of those dating sites are pretty much just hookup culture. I do know people who have met their spouse on them though too.

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