Women, can a man's personality overcome his looks if you find him initially to be physically unattractive?

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Whether you chose yes or no, please explain why.

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Answer 1

thegirlfromthething | 1.4K opinions shared on Dating topic.

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It’s possible for me to become physically attracted to a guy if I like his personality enough, even if I wasn’t initially attracted to his looks, but he has to give me something to work with. A great personality won’t make him physically attractive if he’s below average looking.

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Answer 2

Caseydahlia94

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If I think he’s neutral looking, yes. I fell really hard for someone think I initially had zero attraction to.
If I actively find him unattractive- probably not.

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Answer 3

Anonymous

I voted yes. When I first met my boyfriend, I wasn't very attracted to him. He wasn't UNattractive but he physically was not my type. However, we just instantly hit it off. Our first date lasted 5 hours, and we honestly could've stayed and talked the entire day. Since date 1, neither of us have looked back. We were pretty much exclusive from day 1.

We're still together and I've never been happier. I also now find him very attractive. I find the most mundane things sexy about him, like when he takes a sip of my coffee, or when he shifts gears while driving.

Disclaimer that not all women (or men, for that matter) are like this though. Some people are shallow and more hung up on looks.

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