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- Yes. 80% of domestic spending (US) and 70% of global spending is done by women despite them being only responsible for about 30% of domestic earnings i. e. they spend all of their money and most of his too. If we look at spending when it comes to holidays/birthdays, men spend four times as much as women (and at least in the US for valentines day upwards of 8x more then women). Statistically if we take into account paid work, house work, and child rearing men do slightly more work then women do, despite this they get no credit for any of this (at least in the west).
After retirement mens suicide rates double, it does not change for women however. This is due to the fact that men work non stop to provide (which again, at least in the west, they get no credit for doing no thanks no gratitude) but once they retire their lives are gone, they have no hobbies because they just worked, they have no friends because all they had was work, their children are gone because they grew up while they were busy working and so they are left with nothing and eventually with no purpose left (and a society that doesn't care because he is no longer productive or useful to them) he is faced with a meaningless few years of life or just ending it then and there.
If a woman is in danger it is her husband that has to protect her not the other way around, even up to and including using his own body as a shield to protect her (this is not unusual under those circumstances). He risks his life for her and she doesn't do that for him (and he risks all the legal repercussions that it brings while she does not).
Meanwhile what do women give to him? Well sex, occasionally. If she feels like it (a third of marraiges are sexless and while it does go both ways, generally it tends to be the woman who denies the man sex more often then not). In the west she is not expected to cook or clean because its sexist (expecting him to do his traditional gender roles is not however sexist and in fact if he doesn't he is a "deadbeat"), so she doesn't give him that either. He is a father but we are told how much more difficult it is to be a mother (because while he does all the same things she does when it comes to raising the child, while she works less, he has to sacrifice his life and his time to work to provide for her and the child (this is then later used against him in divorce, an excuse to take away his access to his child while still demanding he provide for it and her).
So as far as I can tell women give sex (less then the guy wants it of course), and maybe if your lucky you will get some affection (between shit tests and drama), and that is about it. Men on the other hand give everything they have and then some. So yes, men give more in a relationship (wasn't always like that of course, but the modern world has made it this way and most women are to entitled to realize it (not their fault, they were raised in a screwed up system that framed women's contributions as oppression, and his contributions as privilege. When brought up under those conditions its hard to have a proper perspective on things.).
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