How to stop thinking about a guy you have no chance with :( ?

Question

I'm 21 and I fell for a 15 year old guy.
He looked like 18-20 year old when I first saw him.
Next year he'll be high school junior and is turning 16 year old next month and I'm almost getting my bachelors degree.

Even if he fell in love with me, our families won't approve. My conservative country sucks. Here parents control you FOREVER.

Worst part is that I'll see him around from now because he's my new family friend. I like him so much that even seeing him one time feels like heaven.

How can I stop falling in love? :'(
It's getting out of control. He's a nice, mature, sweet guy and really handsome.
I wanna badly date him and hug him.

Answer 1

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Yoda

I think you're going to need to wait until he gets older. I don't know what the legal age is in your country but where I live it's 18 years old. You could actually get into a lot of trouble if he is under 18 in your country depending on what the law is. I think you should just wait spend time with him keep your hands off of him not kiss him or try to have sex with him and wait until he is a little bit older.

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19 d
Lol it's only possible if he's also interested. I don't even know how he feels. But yes I screwed up our today's society gathering by ignoring him and acted normal.

Answer 2

Asker

Lol it's only possible if he's also interested. I don't even know how he feels. But yes I screwed up our today's society gathering by ignoring him and acted normal.

Answer 3

Anonymous

Shift your focus. On school, work, whatever. Not as exciting I know, but that's how lol.

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19 d
Couldn't agree more

Answer 4

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Couldn't agree more

Answer 5

Anonymous

Fuck off to that bastard. Leave him girl you deserve so much better. Most guys are dogs and cheaters, so don't strain yourself obsessing about him while he's wanking his penis off fantasizing about other girls. These guys are expert at appearing nice but then they show their hidden horny wolf inside. I bet he'll fuck you if he got the chance. Don't waste your time on a stone.

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19 d
It hurts to imagine that :'( I can't see him as a cheater it's a HUGE TURN OFF.
Opinion Owner

18 d
He's not worth it. Bad guys are NOT WORTH your useless sacrifice. They need adventures, variety but won't be able to see your pure love or stand your true emotions. They won't give a damn once you're down.
Asker

18 d
OH my goodness YESS!!! I'm so vulnerable and emotional but then I will resent myself for falling for a wrong guy. This will be self humiliation if he just hates my real self. I'm out of this. He's not worth it. I observed that he's getting naughty day by day so you're right that they appear nice at first. Shit you saved me :'( Stay blessed.
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Opinion Owner

18 d
Kick him out girl. I would rather die than to give anyone the privilege to straddle and stab my heart. Stop watching delusional movies. Real love doesn't exist and all guys want is sex, use and throw.

Answer 6

Asker

It hurts to imagine that :'( I can't see him as a cheater it's a HUGE TURN OFF.

Answer 7

Opinion Owner

He's not worth it. Bad guys are NOT WORTH your useless sacrifice. They need adventures, variety but won't be able to see your pure love or stand your true emotions. They won't give a damn once you're down.

Answer 8

Asker

OH my goodness YESS!!! I'm so vulnerable and emotional but then I will resent myself for falling for a wrong guy. This will be self humiliation if he just hates my real self. I'm out of this. He's not worth it. I observed that he's getting naughty day by day so you're right that they appear nice at first. Shit you saved me :'( Stay blessed.

Answer 9

Opinion Owner

Kick him out girl. I would rather die than to give anyone the privilege to straddle and stab my heart. Stop watching delusional movies. Real love doesn't exist and all guys want is sex, use and throw.

Answer 10

Anonymous

I say go for it!!!

you can keep it private untill he's older lol

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19 d
I feel that I'm a pervert because I just saw him yesterday and now I'm in love. This is after 2 years i actually liked someone and then found out that he's barely 16.

Answer 11

Asker

I feel that I'm a pervert because I just saw him yesterday and now I'm in love. This is after 2 years i actually liked someone and then found out that he's barely 16.

Answer 12

Anonymous

Are you from India or Mexico?

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19 d
India
Opinion Owner

19 d
Well figured that out when you mentioned "parents control.." lol ! Wanna join me in DM?

Answer 13

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India

Answer 14

Opinion Owner

Well figured that out when you mentioned "parents control.." lol ! Wanna join me in DM?

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