I think I'm mentally trying to downplay it, I had mentioned it to him once or twice that I thought matching rings were cute. However, I wasn't aware what a promise ring really was becuase I kinda grew up in a different culture from him. I recently got sick and I'm more worried he's just doing it to make me happy and less that he wants too
Well there's nothing wrong with doing it to make you happy. If you didn't want to do it you would have never done it. However if you are concerned about that. Then you should communicate that with him. That way neither of you will feel like you made a terrible mistake.
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