How can I get back to being an ambitious girl that I used to be?

[Hangry22]

Well a similar thing happened to me too few months ago. After a long time, i felt the happiness of crushing on a guy. I seemed to have calmed down and started being not cold. But he always used to encourage me to work hard. So i kinda did it for him. Anyway the problem with having a crush after so long is you don't know how to deal with it and so I ruined it. I was filled with regret after and couldn't focus or work and ended up wasting my time watching YouTube and surfing social media. Ya so you need to start fresh now. When you start, it will be hard for a few days but you will be back on track. You need to stop thinking about him during work. This still happens to me and shifts my focus. Watch videos from those people who have achieved your goal. Go watch Team Fearless on youtube. They have these motivational videos. I would suggest 'Focus' from Team Fearless. It's easier to work more if you have a time limit so put limits to complete your work. Also reward yourself for working. It could be food or social media or a video.

[Anonymous]

Suicide and be reborn as an emotionless person who doesn't give AF. I am gonna do that now. :'(
Men are emotionless and don't deserve to be loved at all.

[ItsTheNephilim]

Start picking up the things which are stepping stones towards your ambitions; relevant books for example. You have given someone enough years to let you bother this much. You don't have to hold anything against him, just move on and let life continue and try your best shots. You may regret now for not being motivated enough but you may have regrets later that you didn't make necessary moves and still regret later that you aren't where you wanted because you didn't start at some point of time (now or sooner). Start afresh, start now. Good luck.

[nodnol32]

Remember what inspired you towards those ambitions. Think of the end goal. The focus should always be on the bigger picture. At the same time you might just need a couple days to give yourself and your mind a bit of rest to put it at ease and refresh it to bring back your ambitions to life. Its tough but you do seem to be concerned why its gone so it still does matter to you. The ambitious woman in you is still there.

[Nathan21211]

Read about successful people, watch their interviews, talks.

[SHREYASH007]

even i need an answer someone please advise.