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How do I break things off with a guy before our planned second date tomorrow? I feel awful?

Anonymous
So last Sunday we met from talking online. He owns a winery with his fam I met him at, and I stayed for a good 6 hours and had a nice time. I genuinely like him but I don’t want more than friendship because I’m not attracted him.
since then, we have been messaging and I’ve been on the fence because there are things I like about him. He asked me on a second date this Sunday and I agreed and he bought movie tickets in advance and made reservations at a restaurant (bc of covid, it’s not fancy).
Now I’ve decided I don’t want him to get more interested when I just know in my gut I don’t have those feelings for him. I don’t want to lead him on in any way and for me what would be a casual date for him is something more serious.

What do I say to him? I feel like he’ll hate me.
How do I break things off with a guy before our planned second date tomorrow? I feel awful?
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