Based on these texts, does he sound like a player?

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Look at our text convo, I’m green and he’s gray. He was initially calling me pet names & I told him to tone it down. It was a bit much, we’ve been speaking off tinder for maybe 2 weeks & spoken on the phone for a few hours. He’s flirty and I don’t trust men

Based on these texts, does he sound like a player?

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Answer 1

FlutteringFeelings | 833 opinions shared on Dating topic.

Yoda

Of course. He’s sweet talking you and playing it cool. The conversation he’s presenting on his end has no substance. He’s not asking you what you like to do on your spare time, places you like to travel to, what’s your greatest fear in life. Whenever a conversation is surfaced level and he’s not trying to get into details and connect then you know he’s only around for 1 reason. Him validating you is to see how easy are you to fall for his words which means that’s a couple steps for him to get you in bed. Don’t be so easily flattered by words especially when their through text. If you’re interested in him and expect something more than just sex out of this guy? Keep your eyes peeled open and be ready to walk away. Time will tell.

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Answer 2

Itsok2behapp-e | 164 opinions shared on Dating topic.

Xper 7

He's a strange one.

How can you compare a voice to being cute as shit?

Unless he's one of those artists that displays his shit on a wall, throws some paint at it, some micro flowers and petals and then say, hmm that's "cute."

Also, as an artist, he takes a shit and then places those stick on googly eyes to each shit and then talks to each one saying how they're going to be off to a better place then without warning, flushes his googly eyed shits away!

Note: If humankind can imagine the above then it's not unreasonable to say some portion of our human population carry out the above, just saying!

I conclude he's a player, as he plays with shit and then calls said shit cute. Also, he has an abnormally large collection of stick on googly eyes in every storage container/cupboard/drawer of his bathroom.

#StrangerDangerThisOnePlaysWithShit!

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Itsok2behapp-e

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Thank you for MHO :-)

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Itsok2behapp-e

Thank you for MHO :-)

Answer 4

Not_Average

Yoda

A strange approach. Not sure where he’s intending to go with that or what exactly he’s trying to illustrate. Flat ending that didn’t escalate into anything sexual. He seems inexperienced. I would say he’s not a player

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