Is it over between us?

Question

Been chatting with this gal for 5 weeks. I work out of town during the week so we can only meet up on the weekends. She's bailed on me 3 out of the 4 weekends. We met two weeks ago and hung out for a few hours. Whenever I ask if we are going to do anything (hang out, dinner, etc) I always get a maybe or possibly. I had mentioned meeting up tonight a few days ago and it appears I have now been ghosted. I asked her around 1:00 if we were still planning on meeting up and she didn't reply to my Snapchat or my text (we usually communicate both ways.) Should I be done trying? I can see she's online with the Snap map.

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16 d

Update: I said I get the hint now, hope you find what you're looking for. And with no response, she unfriended me on Snapchat.

Answer 1

mayur1598

Xper 5

Well, 5 weeks you are going very fast... Go slow...
Build the connection between you both...
It looks like over between you... But don't give up...
Try to talk to her and apologise to her about your behaviour...
And start from being friends...

Asker

14 d
Apologize for what behavior? I don't think I've done anything wrong.
mayur1598

14 d
Well you said something rude... (about hint and hope you get what you want)...
Thats not cleave move...
You make yourself fool around her and told her i lost interest in you and I'm not going to talk to you...
You should be soory for that behavior...
And apologise her for irritating her... Asking her out every weekend... (man, she is not free for you... May be she have her own plans for weekend...)
Appreciate her freedom and give her some space...
Let her put some efforts in your relationship... It must be from both side... Not from you only...
Hope you get your problem...
Asker

14 d
How do I go about apologizing to her?
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mayur1598

14 d
Man, how can I tell you that... You have to figure it out by yourself...
Asker

14 d
Well she unfriended me on Snapchat so it won't be through there 😂
mayur1598

14 d
Man you have to find other ways...

Answer 2

Asker

Apologize for what behavior? I don't think I've done anything wrong.

Answer 3

mayur1598

Well you said something rude... (about hint and hope you get what you want)...
Thats not cleave move...
You make yourself fool around her and told her i lost interest in you and I'm not going to talk to you...
You should be soory for that behavior...
And apologise her for irritating her... Asking her out every weekend... (man, she is not free for you... May be she have her own plans for weekend...)
Appreciate her freedom and give her some space...
Let her put some efforts in your relationship... It must be from both side... Not from you only...
Hope you get your problem...

Answer 4

Asker

How do I go about apologizing to her?

Answer 5

mayur1598

Man, how can I tell you that... You have to figure it out by yourself...

Answer 6

Asker

Well she unfriended me on Snapchat so it won't be through there 😂

Answer 7

mayur1598

Man you have to find other ways...

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