True or false: if you feel like a girl is losing interest in you romantically, the best thing to do is back away & see if they come to you first?

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Even if you’ve agreed to do something next weekend, if you feel like she’s losing interest in you, you should back away. Don’t text her or anything, let her come to you.

True - back away even if you’ve talked about meeting up next weekend - let her come to you

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paranoidrealist

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Don't do that cause it only pushes her away more. I would talk to her and see where she's at because she could be dealing with other things in her life and it might not have anything to do with you. and if it is because of you at least you'll know. Girls don't really like doing the chasing once they notice a man has pulled back and is giving less attention. Communication is key believe me.

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The dAting coaches say otherwise
paranoidrealist

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I think I would know more since I'm a girl that's done this a lot, but good luck :)
loveslongnails

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Hmmm... girls are "supposed" to be ones so in touch with their emotions, unlike guys. Yet they expect a guy to come after them and say "baby, what's wrong, what's going on, how come you're not affectionate anymore' ? If you've got other stuff going on in your life that is radically changing your behavior, don't you think YOU should clue him in on it FIRST without him having to draw it out of you?
Yeah, you should.
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paranoidrealist

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@loveslongnails That's a stereotype; not every woman is comfortable with expressing their emotions. I can't do it, and I'm naturally an independent person. If I'm going through something ill handle it by myself and won't burden the guy I'm dating on my feelings. Again every woman is different, but overall if the girl is acting differently, do not give her the same energy back cause then she'll for sure lose interest if she wasn't already.

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The dAting coaches say otherwise

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paranoidrealist

I think I would know more since I'm a girl that's done this a lot, but good luck :)

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loveslongnails

Hmmm... girls are "supposed" to be ones so in touch with their emotions, unlike guys. Yet they expect a guy to come after them and say "baby, what's wrong, what's going on, how come you're not affectionate anymore' ? If you've got other stuff going on in your life that is radically changing your behavior, don't you think YOU should clue him in on it FIRST without him having to draw it out of you?
Yeah, you should.

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paranoidrealist

@loveslongnails That's a stereotype; not every woman is comfortable with expressing their emotions. I can't do it, and I'm naturally an independent person. If I'm going through something ill handle it by myself and won't burden the guy I'm dating on my feelings. Again every woman is different, but overall if the girl is acting differently, do not give her the same energy back cause then she'll for sure lose interest if she wasn't already.

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Anonymous

True - back away even if you’ve talked about meeting up next weekend - let her come to you

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Why the heck are the girls saying do the opposite?

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Why the heck are the girls saying do the opposite?

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Anonymous

If you push she will not like that

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Why the heck are the girls saying do the opposite?

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Why the heck are the girls saying do the opposite?

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loveslongnails | 2.7K opinions shared on Dating topic.

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Exactly.

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Why the heck are the girls saying do the opposite?

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Why the heck are the girls saying do the opposite?

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