My long distance boyfriend disappeared for 12 days online. Thn comes back as if it a normal thing to do.. really?

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He comes back saying he was on vacation in countryside not using phone n that he is doing good will come back after some days
Are all guys like this? Am i being petty being mad about this?

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ovixs90 | 92 opinions shared on Dating topic.

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For my self being on a distance relationship that ended. Its difficult thing you get tired if you speak to often with someone like daily, but if you stop speaking for a week or more mostly the person loses interest.
-There can be few reasons his feelings vanishing for you
-He really was in country side and had no phone
- or he is just tired of distance relationship
- he wanted a break from you
- or he just wanted to show he is busy with his life maybe make you envy

Thats just my oppinion maybe one of this things might match. As well on distance there is really wrong thing is that we might get envy really was, get suspiciuos or make up some crazy stories that really not true..

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Asker

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These options r a bit harsh to hear cuz i never felt tired talking with him each day n him disappearing like that really hurted me cuz he could at least inform me first but now that u r saying maybe he wanted a break from me I don't know maybe n losing interest after not talking for a week it could depend on the pillar of the relationship
Tho i do appreciate ur tots maybe one of them is true hopefully not the negative ones
ovixs90

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It depends on many factors. Have you ever meet him in real life? A distance relationship is really not easy i would say because when you like someone and you can't see that person can come up with many crazy ideas that often lead to brake up.
Asker

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Yeah that's true n i thk am going thr.. thank u for ur opinion

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Asker

These options r a bit harsh to hear cuz i never felt tired talking with him each day n him disappearing like that really hurted me cuz he could at least inform me first but now that u r saying maybe he wanted a break from me I don't know maybe n losing interest after not talking for a week it could depend on the pillar of the relationship
Tho i do appreciate ur tots maybe one of them is true hopefully not the negative ones

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ovixs90

It depends on many factors. Have you ever meet him in real life? A distance relationship is really not easy i would say because when you like someone and you can't see that person can come up with many crazy ideas that often lead to brake up.

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Asker

Yeah that's true n i thk am going thr.. thank u for ur opinion

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GingerGuy | 5.1K opinions shared on Dating topic.

Master

Well that's certainly a possibility and understandable. However he could have informed you before he left that he was going?

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Asker

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No he didn't tell me. texted me back after 12 days thn disappeared again for like a 5 days thn came back
GingerGuy

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I'd find a new boyfriend. He's a friend now at best. No excuse for that.
ovixs90

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Yeah his behaviour is weird or suspiciuos if he dissapear with out telling you anything and than apear and again dissapear

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Asker

No he didn't tell me. texted me back after 12 days thn disappeared again for like a 5 days thn came back

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GingerGuy

I'd find a new boyfriend. He's a friend now at best. No excuse for that.

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ovixs90

Yeah his behaviour is weird or suspiciuos if he dissapear with out telling you anything and than apear and again dissapear

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andreasderjuengere | 1.6K opinions shared on Dating topic.

Master

Which law that requires us to be 'online' for specified periods of time do you refer to?

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Being online is our only way of communicating since its 'long distance relationship' that means if he isn't i can't talk with him at all n thats almost 2 weeks so returning to your question which i didn't understand to be honest so I will ask you a question instead..' what do you mean by law?
ovixs90

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Two week not talking is a lot on distance relationship
andreasderjuengere

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So you have a pen pal : D
The 'law' I refer to is ironical.
People nowadays seem to believe that it's a social obligation to constantly 'communicate'.
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ovixs90

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No, your not obliged to talk with each other unless you reached such a level of trust in your distance relationship that you're completely sure about this person. But i don't think it's possible if you first of all never even meet this person in real life. Other wise from my experience i think if you like this person you want to talk with them as much as possible.

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Asker

Being online is our only way of communicating since its 'long distance relationship' that means if he isn't i can't talk with him at all n thats almost 2 weeks so returning to your question which i didn't understand to be honest so I will ask you a question instead..' what do you mean by law?

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ovixs90

Two week not talking is a lot on distance relationship

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andreasderjuengere

So you have a pen pal : D
The 'law' I refer to is ironical.
People nowadays seem to believe that it's a social obligation to constantly 'communicate'.

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ovixs90

No, your not obliged to talk with each other unless you reached such a level of trust in your distance relationship that you're completely sure about this person. But i don't think it's possible if you first of all never even meet this person in real life. Other wise from my experience i think if you like this person you want to talk with them as much as possible.