Are someone's dating preferences anybody else's business?

[Cynicaldreamer]

No, that's why it's a preference: it only impacts you, and those you choose to like or pursue. You are not obligated to care or even tell others about your preferences... and don't let anyone tell you otherwise!

I know for a fact most people consider my dating preferences "too much," or tell me I need to lower them or I'll be single forever-

Too late for the latter, lol.

Kidding aside, no one knows what you want except YOU. Even if others are trying to help you, their preferences might not be right for you. Then you'll end up dating someone just for the sake of being in a relationship, yet they're completely wrong for you.

[AmandaYVR]

Only if you end up complaining about the same chronic problems about girls, over and over, and the other people have to hear it, even when they mentioned the warning signs were all there in the beginning.

[RemoErdosain]

You can have whatever preferences you want and no one should mind as long as you're respectful about it. You shouldn't be disrespectful towards the people you reject based on your preferences, if you want them to respect you

[Kurαȷ]

If someone wants to get triggered by my preferences, they can go ahead.
The only people who have ever taken offense about my preferences are those who do not meet them, and I obviously don't care about those people.

[Yads_Is_Back]

Not really, but I have no shame in mine so if somebody asks I have no problem telling them. It's just not something to be ashamed of. But yeah, it's about you so if you don't want to tell anybody then don't.

[cjgsu]

Nope but 4 sum reason sum people feel that world needs 2 know.

[dcblah58]

Why are there only two options? My dating preferences are the business of whoever I tell.

[Anonymous]

Your dating preferences are your business. However, if you're an a$$hole, I have every right to hate you for that

[LinkxPeach]

Nope, not really. If that person has a relationship with someone, or not in a relationship with you then it’s none of their business, and it’s not about them. Anyone who has a problem or make it their business is stupid, jealous, insecure, and annoying.

[R3DthatDude]

You trying to prove appoint? Lol of course it’s no one’s business

[anon1903]

It can be if you're breaking the law for ex. Dating a minor

[FrontierMan]

They are and they aren't. I refuse to live by rigid principles like that, I'm going to do what I want depending on the individual circumstances.

[Dchrls78104]

No. In the end, I'm the one who has to live with my choice---I alone.

[Tea-Spaghetti]

It's like discriminating in the work place some discrimination not ok.

[Tunasub]

There ya have it.

[UrBrotherCain]

my friends eventually figure it out, I often don't need to tell them.

[najekim]

Preferences should be only between you and the one (s) you're trying to date.

[Unstoppable20]

My preferences are nobody's business. I like what I like and they like what they like.

[Tiffanyloves2swallow]

I like to keep my man happy and as much as I love to show him off to the people i hold dear to me he is a private person and doesn't like to share any information about our relationship to anyone

[Agem123]

Hell no.

Usually, it's the losers with no life of their own who always have an opinion😆

[jasco]

Honestly i don't mind sharing but no one should have a problem with who i want to date

[dogbert111]

No ones business but mine. Only mine.

[zagor]

Only people who are interested in them.

[pigoat]

If they trying to date you it is